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Should you pray when you don’t feel like it? The Healing Power of Prayer

You don't always have the strength and ability to stand. The work involves hard physical labor, and by the evening a person is so tired that his legs ache. Due to advancing years, age-related diseases appear. A pregnant woman who has lower back pain and swollen legs. There are many reasons, but a person feels the need for prayer.

What now, not to pray at all? Of course not. Be sure to pray while sitting. And this can be done, despite the indignation of the grandmothers from the church.

What is prayer?

This is direct communication with God. Conversation with Him. This is a conversation between a child and his Father. But we won’t explain ourselves in lofty words, but will talk about it more simply.

When we pray, we meet God. We meet the Mother of God and the saints, to whom we fall in prayer. We ask them for something, and after some time we realize that our request has been fulfilled. And thanks to this, comes the awareness of the participation of saints in our lives, as well as the participation of God. He is always there, always ready to help and patiently waiting for us to turn to him.

There is another type of prayer. This prayer is a dialogue. When a person is having a conversation, it is important for him not only to speak out, but also to hear the opinion of the interlocutor. The moment we offer prayers to God, we need to be prepared for Him to reveal Himself to us. Sometimes not the way we imagine Him. Therefore, you cannot invent an image of God for yourself, or somehow imagine him. We see God in icons, we see the Mother of God, saints. It's enough.

Is it possible to read prayers while sitting? Imagine that a man came to his father. I came after work, I really want to talk to him, but my legs hurt and I’m so tired that I just don’t have the strength to stand. Will the father, seeing this, not talk to his child? Or will he make him stand as a sign of respect for his parent? Of course not. Quite the contrary: seeing how tired the son is, he will suggest that he sit down, drink a cup of tea and talk.

So, will God, seeing a person’s zeal, not accept sincere prayer just because the person praying is sitting?

When do we pray?

Most often, when something happens in life and help is urgently needed. Then the person begins to pray and ask God for this help. He simply has no other hope. Help comes, the satisfied person rejoices, forgets to thank him and moves away from God until the next emergency situation. Is it correct? Hardly.

Ideally, we should live our lives prayerfully. Live with it the same way we live with air. People do not forget to breathe, because without oxygen we will simply die in a few minutes. Without prayer, the soul dies; this is its “oxygen”.

Given our busy schedule and living conditions, it is extremely difficult to constantly be in prayer. The hustle and bustle at work, the hustle and bustle in everyday life, the people around you - it’s all too much. And it's too noisy around us. However, we wake up in the morning. And what do we think about first? About what you have to do today. We get up, wash, get dressed, have breakfast and forward - towards the new bustle. But you need to adjust your morning a little. Get up and thank God for another day given to you. Ask for His intercession during the day. Of course, the most the best option- read morning prayers. But no one has yet canceled gratitude from the heart.

Prayer throughout the day

Is this possible given our workload? Why not, everything is possible. Is it possible to pray while sitting, for example, in a car? Certainly. You can go to work and mentally pray to God.

A man sat down to eat - before the meal he needed to pray mentally, read the Lord's Prayer. No one will hear this, but what is the benefit for the one praying! He ate, thanked the Lord for the meal, and went back to work.

Prayer in the temple

Is it possible for an Orthodox person to pray while sitting? Especially in the temple, where everyone is standing? Due to weakness - it is possible. There is such a wonderful phrase from Metropolitan Philaret of Moscow: “It is better to think about God while sitting than to think about your feet while standing.”

Some illnesses make it difficult for a person to stand. And with other weaknesses it is not always easy. Therefore, you should not be embarrassed by sitting on a bench in a temple. There are certain places in the service where you must stand when proclaiming them. This is the Cherubic Hymn, the reading of the Gospel, the prayers “I Believe” and “Our Father,” and the removal of the Chalice. In other cases, if you feel that you cannot stand the service, sit down.

Home prayer

Is it possible to sit and pray in front of icons at home? There is nothing wrong with this if a person does it due to illness or other good reasons. If it’s just laziness, it’s better not to be lazy and get up and pray while standing.

In the case when the person praying is very tired, it is quite acceptable to sit on a chair or on a sofa near the icons, pick up a prayer book and pray from the heart.

What should sick people do?

What if a person is so sick that he cannot get up on his own? Or bedridden? Or is it due to very old age? He can’t even pick up a prayer book. How then to pray? And in general, is it possible to pray lying down or sitting?

In this case, you can ask one of the household members to submit a prayer book. Keep it close to the bed, so that the patient can reach it independently. More precisely, reach out and take it. As for reading the Gospel, family members may well take a couple of minutes and read an excerpt from it at the request of the patient.

In addition, a bedridden person is able to pray mentally. There is nothing reprehensible about turning to God in your own words. In a prayer that comes from the depths of the heart, from the whole soul, how can there be anything offensive to God? Even if it is read in an “unidentified” position. The Lord sees the heart of the one who prays and knows his thoughts. And accepts the prayer of the sick or infirm.

Is it possible to pray at home, sitting or lying down? Yes. And it’s not just possible, but necessary. “Those who are healthy don’t call for a doctor, but those who are sick really need a doctor.” And not only in the literal sense of these words.

Can prayer be objectionable?

Complex issue. She may not be heard, rather. Why? Everything depends on the quality of prayer. If a person reads it in a formulaic manner in 15 minutes, without thinking about the words and their meaning, closes the prayer book - and that’s the end of it, what kind of prayer is this? It is not clear to a person what and why he read. But God doesn’t need a template, He needs sincerity.

Who can you pray to while sitting at home? And to God, and the Mother of God, and the saints. Let the prayer be performed in a sitting position, but from the heart. This is better than standing in front of the icons and simply reading the rule without understanding anything in it and without trying to do it.

Children's prayer

Is it possible for a child to pray while sitting? Children's prayer is considered the most sincere. Because children are innocent, naive and trust God. It’s not for nothing that the Lord himself said: be like children.

There are concessions for children. Including in prayer rule. The most important thing is not to force the child to read long and incomprehensible prayers. Let the baby read, for example, “Our Father” before going to bed and talk to God in his own words. This is much more useful than reading out the rules with a cold heart, because mom said so, that is, according to the principle “adults should.” And it’s not for adults, it’s for the child himself.

Prayers of Thanksgiving

We often ask without thanking. The latter must not be forgotten. It would be unpleasant for us to fulfill someone's request and not hear thank you in return. Why should God give us something, knowing our ingratitude?

Is it possible to pray while sitting, read a thanksgiving akathist, or offer a prayer? Are you tired? You feel sick? Sore feet? Then sit and don't worry about it. Sit down, take an akathist or prayer book in your hands, and read calmly, slowly, thoughtfully. Great benefit for the person praying. And God is glad to see such sincere gratitude.

When you don't have the strength to pray

It happens that you don’t have the strength to pray. No way. Neither standing, nor sitting, nor lying down. Prayer doesn’t work, the person doesn’t want to do it.

What to do then? Force yourself to get up, stand in front of the icons, pick up a prayer book and read at least one prayer. Through force. Because we don’t always want to pray, no matter how surprising it may sound. How can you not want to communicate with God? It’s wild, strange, incomprehensible, but such states do exist. And when they appear, you need to force yourself to pray.

But it probably won’t be from the heart? And here everything depends on the person praying. You can read every word with utmost attention, even if it is just one prayer. Such a prayerful attitude will be much more useful than if you do not pray at all or read the rule with just your lips, when your thoughts are hovering somewhere far, far away.

How long does it take? 20 minutes, no more. This is because a person quickly reads it, and that’s it. So it’s better to spend these 20 minutes reading two prayers, but with sense and concentration, than to scold them somehow, because that’s how it’s supposed to be.

Important addition

What do you need to know when starting to pray? Just an answer to the question, is it possible to pray while sitting or lying down? No. The main thing to remember is that you need to pray thoughtfully. Try to understand every word of the prayer. And the latter must come from the heart. This is why you need to not only read the rules, but also pray in your own words.

Conclusion

From the article we learned whether it is possible to pray while sitting. In case of serious illness, senile infirmity, pregnancy or very severe fatigue, this is not prohibited. Children are allowed to pray while sitting.

As for bedridden patients, in their case it is quite appropriate to offer prayers to God in the usual position.

It is not the position that is important, although it plays an important role. The most important thing is the heart and soul of a person, sincere, burning and striving for God.

My grandmother taught me this prayer... She saved me more than once! I remember I still didn’t believe, I was left with my husband in a foreign country, no acquaintances, no money... All that was left was to trust in God.

I remembered this prayer and prayed fervently all night. And Nikolai Ugodnik helped us - that day they called my husband and offered him a good job. Since then I believed.

I am sharing this with you the strongest prayer. Not everyone believes in the power of prayers, however, when serious problems arise life difficulties often ask for help from higher powers.

The greatest saints, who proved their righteousness and purity of soul during their lifetime, have been delivering prayers for help to the Heavenly Father for many centuries. St. Nicholas was exactly such a person, to whom millions of believers pray.

According to the testimony of many people, prayer to St. Nicholas the Wonderworker, which changes fate, really helps, relieves you of all sorts of troubles, problems and illnesses.

People believe that praying to a miracle worker changes fate. He hears those praying and helps everyone who needs support in a difficult situation.

People turn to him with requests for intercession, health, marriage, peace of mind and other help. Saint Nicholas is considered the patron saint of sailors and travelers, since during his lifetime he was able to calm the storm at sea.

The Orthodox prayer to Nicholas the Wonderworker is one of the most powerful.

If prayer is truly sincere and comes from the heart, it can change a person’s life for the better, heal and perform a miracle.

Favorable changes occur not only in the lives of those who pray, but also in those for whom they pray.

The miracle worker helps even in the most difficult and seemingly hopeless cases.

The effectiveness of this prayer is confirmed by many miracles that happened to those who, with the help of sincere prayer, were able to change their lives for the better.

An angel in the image of an earthly being by the nature of the Creator of all creation; Having foreseen the fruitful kindness of your soul, blessed Nicholas, teach everyone to cry out to you: Rejoice, born in the robes of angels, as pure in the flesh; Rejoice, baptized with water and fire, as though holy in the flesh. Rejoice, you who surprised your parents with your birth; Rejoice, you who revealed the strength of your soul at Christmas. Rejoice, garden of the land of promise; Rejoice, flower of the Divine planting. Rejoice, virtuous vine of Christ's grapes; Rejoice, miraculous tree of Jesus' paradise. Rejoice, thou land of heavenly destruction; Rejoice, myrrh of Christ's fragrance. Rejoice, for you will drive away sobbing; Rejoice for you bring joy. Rejoice, Nicholas, great Wonderworker, rejoice, Nicholas, great Wonderworker, Rejoice, Nicholas, great Wonderworker!

Rejoice, image of lambs and shepherds; Rejoice, holy purifier of morals. Rejoice, container of great virtues; Rejoice, holy and pure dwelling! Rejoice, all-bright and all-loving lamp; Rejoice, golden and immaculate light! Rejoice, worthy interlocutor of Angels; Rejoice, good teacher of men! Rejoice, rule of pious faith; Rejoice, image of spiritual meekness! Rejoice, for through you we are delivered from bodily passions; Rejoice, for through you we are filled with spiritual sweetness! Rejoice, Nicholas, great Wonderworker, rejoice, Nicholas, great Wonderworker, Rejoice, Nicholas, great Wonderworker!

Prayer when the soul is hard

WHAT TO DO IF YOUR SOUL HURTS, IF YOUR SOUL IS BAD. (prayers to be read and the power of holy sources)

“Without sorrow there is no salvation, but the Kingdom of Heaven awaits those who endure.” ( Venerable Seraphim Sarovsky)

What to do when your soul hurts?

In this small article it is impossible to solve the question of how to treat heartache, how to cope with loss and bereavement. I will only tell you about the small first steps that will help move the painful state from a dead point and, perhaps, begin to change the painful state of mind.

When you feel bad, it’s difficult to communicate with someone. Western recipes for treating mental pain from a psychotherapist are, for the most part, not suitable for Russian people. And, I honestly admit as a doctor, many traditional medical approaches to treating mental pain come down to prescribing one or another medicines and simple verbal consolation.

Traditional Russian approaches to treating mental pain in conversations with friends (if you have the strength) or taking “green wine” only aggravate the severity of mental pain. The best it can do Orthodox man When your soul hurts, you can go to confession and receive communion.

Confession is a grace-filled release of the soul, and there are cases when one confession completely healed not only mental pain, but also inveterate and severe mental illness.

Priests believe that depression is the cry of the soul about its troubles, about its plight. Big or small sins “cry out,” and unrepentance torments the soul.

In fact, the feeling of sin is the awareness of the discrepancy between the pure holy spirit present in the soul of every person and one’s behavior, desires or thoughts, perhaps under the control of “demons”. Awareness of this conflict gives rise to another sin - despondency. The “demon” of despondency is very powerful and can deprive a person of his last strength, pushing him to the worst.

It would seem that the simplest thing in this situation is to go to the temple to the priest and tell him in spirit everything that oppresses you, that makes your soul ache. Father will accept your confession, pray for the forgiveness of your sins, you will partake of the Holy Mysteries of Christ and everything will go smoothly.

However, let’s not lie, few people who consider themselves Orthodox go to church for confession. In most cases, the “Orthodox ritual” comes down to a rare trip to church, where a few candles are lit, notes are written, and “money for the temple” is given. The Orthodox duty is fulfilled and you can relax until your next random visit to the church. Even in such a healthy state of mind, people rarely turn to confession and communion. Coming to confession is associated with many fears: “What if I prepared incorrectly?”, “What if my sins are unforgivable?”, “What if the priest scolds me?”, “Will the priest have time?”, “I will confess, and everyone in the temple will look at me?, “And where can I look for a priest in the temple - there are only old women who shush everyone?”

What to do? It’s almost impossible for one person to cope with mental pain. Of course, time heals mental wounds. But how to survive this very time of mental pain? Then, when the pain in the soul subsides, yes, you will probably find the mental strength to go to the doctor, who will prescribe the necessary medications and, perhaps, they will also recommend a priest, who will listen to all the troubles and sorrows with love and understanding and tell you how to live further, how to heal mental pain.

I will try to describe 10 steps with which, it seems to me, you can begin to heal the pain in your soul. IN

At one time, some of these steps helped me too. My personal opinion may not coincide with the opinion Orthodox clergy– please consult your confessor if you feel that the proposed path is not suitable for you.

Wear a cross around your neck if you don't usually wear one.

Try to stop analyzing your condition and returning in your thoughts to traumatic events again and again.

Accept your suffering as a given. Make peace with them. Stop reasoning on the topics: “Why do I need this?”, “Why me?”

Think about something else: “Why did the Lord send me this suffering?”

If you hear that someone is trying to engage in a conversation with you in your thoughts, do not answer.

Say: “Get away from me, unclean spirit, I don’t want to listen to you, I believe only in my Lord Jesus Christ, I worship, and He alone do I serve.”

Give your thoughts simple and wholesome food - prayers: use simple and short rule St. Ignatius Brianchaninov:

"Thank God for everything! God! I surrender to Your Holy will! Thy will be with me! God! I thank You for everything that You have been pleased to send to me. I accept what is worthy according to my deeds; remember me, Lord, in Your Kingdom!”

Immerse yourself in these thoughts. Read the Jesus Prayer to yourself as often as possible:

“Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy on me, a sinner.”

If you are closer to the appeal to the Mother of God, read:

You will notice how every day prayers give you more and more more strength how the forces of evil retreat from you.

In the morning, getting out of bed after reading these simple prayers, turn your face to the west (where the sun usually sets) and say:

“I renounce you, Satan, and all your works, and all your angels, and all your ministry, and all your pride.”

Then blow in the same direction. The same words should be said in the evening after prayer. "May God rise again"

Before lying down on the bed, reading a prayer:

May God rise again, and may His enemies be scattered, and may they flee from His presence. As smoke disappears, let them disappear; As wax melts in the presence of fire, so let demons perish in the presence of lovers of God and signifying sign of the cross, and in joy they say: Rejoice, Most Honest and Life-Giving Cross of the Lord, drive away the demons by force on You, the crucified Lord Jesus Christ, who descended into hell and trampled upon the power of the devil, and gave us Himself, His Honest Cross to drive away every adversary. O Most Honorable One and life-giving Cross Lord! Help me with the Holy Lady Virgin Mary and with all the saints forever. Amen."

After reading the prayer, cross all four cardinal directions and your bed with your hand.

Ask to bring you holy water from a temple or holy spring. Sprinkle your home, your bed, yourself with holy water and drink holy water with prayer:

Lord my God, may your holy gift and your holy water be for the remission of my sins, for the enlightenment of my mind, for the strengthening of my mental and physical strength, for the health of my soul and body, for the subjugation of my passions and infirmities, according to your infinite mercy through your prayers Your Most Pure Mother and all Your Saints. Amen."

When you feel strong enough to go outside, ask someone close to you to take you to a holy spring with a font. Accompanied loved one, whom you trust, try to take a three-time ablution in the waters of the holy spring. The waters of the holy spring have great healing powers and are capable of driving away the most powerful demons.

If there are no holy springs in your area, with the help of an accompanying person, wade the river or stream three times, trying to plunge into your head. If there is no river in your area, pour holy water from the temple on the top of your head. It is believed that demons “sit” there.

When, after washing, you gain more strength, visit the temple for the sacrament of Blessing of Unction, or Anointing of Unction or Unction. Through this Sacrament, believers are given the healing power of God, which also significantly weakens the action of demons. Also, forgotten and unconscious sins are forgiven.

The sacrament consists of the sevenfold anointing of parts of the body (forehead, nostrils, cheeks, lips, chest and hands) with consecrated oil, which is preceded by the reading of the Apostle, the Gospel, a short litany and prayer for the healing of a person and the forgiveness of his sins. During anointing, the priest prays, places the Gospel on the person’s head with the letters facing down, and says a prayer of absolution from sins. The soul becomes lighter. The pain recedes.

Let's move on to confession and communion. It is best to confess in a monastery located far from tourist routes. It is necessary to find out in advance which of the monks is more experienced in this matter, because a lot depends on the personality of the confessor.

If there are no spiritually sensible priests nearby, you will have to find out from the believers where they are and go there. Your future depends on the quality of this confession! It should not be general, but only individual. If there are no monasteries nearby, find out about quiet rural parishes, where there are no tourists, where there are few people, and the priest will have time to attend to you.

The priest and doctor will tell you about the next steps.

Prayer to your Guardian Angel:

“Holy Angel of the Lord, my Guardian, save and preserve my soul from the snares of the enemy.”

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If the soul hurts, if the soul feels bad.

10 steps personal experience way out of a mental crisis. One of the possible solutions.

Venerable Seraphim of Sarov

Each of us has had, has and will have moments or periods when the soul feels unbearably bad, when the soul hurts and grieves. I don’t want to see anyone, talk to anyone. I don't want to eat, I don't want to move. At such moments, one cannot believe that one day the soul will recover from the pain and learn to rejoice again. It is impossible to look into the future in such a state. You see only a blank wall in front of you and bitter losses or mistakes behind you. Can't sleep at night. There is no strength for anything. It is very, very difficult to get out of such a state of mind. The soul hurts, the soul feels bad.

the soul hurts. What to do when the soul hurts? In this small article it is impossible to solve the question of how to treat mental pain, how to survive losses and bereavements. I will only tell you about the small first steps that will help move the painful state from a dead point and, perhaps, begin to change the painful state of mind.

When you feel bad, it’s difficult to communicate with someone. Western recipes for treating mental pain from a psychotherapist are, for the most part, not suitable for Russian people. And, I honestly admit as a doctor, many traditional medical approaches to treating mental pain come down to prescribing certain medications and simple verbal consolation. Traditional Russian approaches to treating mental pain in conversations with friends (if you have the strength) or taking “green wine” only aggravate the severity of mental pain. The best thing an Orthodox person can do when their soul hurts is to go to confession and receive communion. Confession is a grace-filled release of the soul, and there are cases when one confession completely cured not only mental pain, but also old and serious mental illnesses. Priests believe that depression is the cry of the soul about its troubles, about its plight. Big or small sins “cry out,” and unrepentance torments the soul. In fact, the feeling of sin is the awareness of the discrepancy between the pure holy spirit present in the soul of every person and one’s behavior, desires or thoughts, perhaps under the control of “demons”. Awareness of this conflict gives rise to another sin - despondency. The “demon” of despondency is very powerful and can deprive a person of his last strength, pushing him to the worst.

However, let’s not lie, few people who consider themselves Orthodox go to church for confession. In most cases, the “Orthodox ritual” comes down to a rare trip to church, where a few candles are lit, notes are written, and “money for the temple” is given. The Orthodox duty is fulfilled and you can relax until your next random visit to the church. Even in such a healthy state of mind, people rarely turn to confession and communion. Coming to confession is associated with many fears: “What if I prepared incorrectly?”, “What if my sins are unforgivable?”, “What if the priest scolds me?”, “Will the priest have time?”, “I will confess, and everyone in the temple will look at me?, “And where can I look for a priest in the temple - there are only old women who shush everyone?”

If these questions create serious obstacles to confession from a healthy and strong man, then what can we say about a person in loss of strength, when his soul hurts?

may your holy gift and your holy water be for the forgiveness of my sins, for the enlightenment of my mind, for the strengthening of my mental and physical strength,

for the health of my soul and body, for the subjugation of my passions and infirmities,

according to Thy infinite mercy through the prayers of Thy Most Pure Mother and all Thy Saints.

Holy Angel of the Lord, my Guardian, save and preserve my soul from the snares of the enemy.

How? Prayer with tears, repentance, communion. You need to have the commandments in your heart; Every week, examine your conscience to see if you are living according to the commandments.”

Whoever wants peace, grace, joy to be in him, and also for peace, friendship, and love to reign among his neighbors, must repent, that is, change completely, and most importantly, he must seek consolation in the Lord the Savior, Who is always ready help the penitent.

"When I die, go to my grave and tell me everything you need, and I will hear you, and before you even have time to leave it, I will fulfill everything and give it to you. If someone, even a mile from my grave, turns to me, then I will respond to him too."

– inhale air through the nose, inflating the stomach.

– hold your breath for 1 second.

– we exhale for a long time, as slowly as possible through the mouth (lips pursed into a tube), exhaling the air until the very end, until a feeling of “emptiness”. As you exhale, imagine that the air is wrapping you up, picking you up and lulling you to sleep.

– after exhaling, pause for 2-3 seconds and notice how with each exhalation your heartbeat slows down, it becomes lighter, and at the end of the exhalation drowsiness begins to appear.

– repeat 10-20-30 breathing movements and switch to the normal breathing rhythm.

– now we do an exercise for the eyes: close our eyes as slowly as possible, even slower!

– as your eyes close, you may notice how your eyelids begin to get heavier and heavier.

– closed their eyes. Fine. Now, just as slowly, as slowly as possible, we open our eyes. We open it with force - even if the eyelids have become heavy and the eyes are sticking together.

- Fine. Now we slowly lower our heavy eyelids again.

– repeat the exercise with your eyes several times until you are still able to open and close your eyes before falling into deep sleep.

Realize that the main task of any media is to deliver negative news. Don't believe me? Take a piece of paper and a pen. Divide the sheet in half. Place a minus on the left side of the column and a plus on the right side. Now turn on the TV to a news broadcast (open a news website) and sort all the news by the emotions they evoke in you: on the left - negative, on the right - positive. Now count which column has more news.

Why does this happen? It’s very simple: journalists cannot make money on positive news. In addition to journalists, currency or stock traders make money from news. Are you not one of them? No? So why do you need this daily stream of news? News does not improve your educational or cultural level in any way - rather the opposite. The news carries negative emotions(indignation, anger, fear, aggression, envy) which you are forced to somehow process and react (in conversation, in a quarrel, in the affect of emotions, in dreams). Negative information can be repressed into the subconscious and remain there in the form of a time bomb, erupting in the same nightmares. Why do you need all this? Just block this constant channel of information that is absolutely useless for your life and well-being. This is not so easy to do: the media uses hidden and explicit suggestions “Stay with us”, “Don’t switch”, “Stay informed”, “Subscribe to the news”. After all, journalists need to retain their audience - otherwise who will pay them for advertising?

But when you free your consciousness from this flow of information, you will very soon be surprised to notice how your physical and mental state begins to change. What to do free time? Read smart books to really get useful information and improve your educational level.

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Prayer when your soul is heavy and you want to cry, 3 prayers

When your soul is heavy and you want to cry, prayers for grief will help you. From vanity, losses, divorces and squabbles, you become exhausted, reacting to the world with litigation and tears.

My dears, it would seem that there is no reason for devastated sobbing.

You can't understand what's happening.

The thought immediately arises that damage has been caused.

Please do not traumatize your soul by wiping away the tears.

The best solution would be to strengthen your faith with the help of Orthodox prayers.

Light 3 candles. Place an icon of Jesus Christ, Nicholas the Wonderworker and the Blessed Eldress Matrona of Moscow nearby.

Repent before the Lord God, remembering all your sins.

At this moment, you will want to cry again, but these are tears of purification.

Start reading prayers to help your soul find grace and peace.

Blessed Elder, Matrona of Moscow. You heal the souls that weep heavily because slaves forget about their sins. Dry away my tears that flow in sorrow, calm down all the misfortunes that nest in life. Thy will be done. Amen.

Wonderworker Nicholas, Defender and Savior. We pray to you when we groan, sometimes when we die in mental anguish. Deliver me from the tears of the mourners, as if I am lost, Right way instruct. Thy will be done. Amen.

Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God. Forgive me for crying because of adversity, not seeing the righteous people nearby. For the burden that I carry in sinfulness, I wipe away a bitter tear from my eyes. Have mercy, O God, strengthen your faith, sprinkle your soul with holy water. Thy will be done. Amen.

Read each prayer 3 times, looking with rapture at the holy images.

When your soul is heavy and you want to cry, remember that faith in Christ will help you.

Every person has troubles in life that require help from Above. In many situations, we pray for the protection of the Holy Saints, because they have the boldness to pray for us before the Almighty. Moreover, at one time they were also ordinary people and understand our problems.

And after death, the Lord granted them the gift of helping people in various situations.

When to ask for help through prayer

Work is where a person spends most of his life. Labor activity gives us the opportunity to provide ourselves and our family with material goods.

But sometimes at work there comes a “dark streak”, a series of troubles, which forces you to look for a way out of the problems. Of course, you can endure attacks from colleagues and superiors, be under stress every day, or look for a new job, which is quite difficult during a crisis.

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Prayer for troubles at work to the Saints can influence the situation and change it for the better.

She is able to solve any problem, bring some sense to her enemies and calm their hearts. The Mother of God will protect you from enemies, eliminate omissions among colleagues, and improve the microclimate.

Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Mary

O Many-sorrowful Mother of God, who surpassed all the daughters of the earth in Her purity and in the multitude of sufferings You brought to the earth! Accept our long-suffering sighs and keep us under the shelter of Your mercy, for you are not known for refuge and warm intercession, but, as having boldness in the One who was born of You, help and save us with Your prayers, so that we may without stumbling reach the Kingdom of Heaven, where with all the saints we will sing praises to the One God in the Trinity, always, now, and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Saint Nicholas the Wonderworker

Nicholas of Myra is one of the most beloved and especially revered saints among our people.

His miracles are countless, he helps people in almost all matters and life situations, including resolving work conflicts.

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Prayer to Nicholas the Wonderworker

Oh, all-holy Nicholas, exceedingly saintly servant of the Lord, our warm intercessor, and everywhere in sorrow a quick helper! Help me, a sinner and sad person in this present life, beg the Lord God to grant me forgiveness of all my sins, which I have sinned greatly from my youth, in all my life, in deed, word, thought and all my feelings; and at the end of my soul, help me the accursed, beg the Lord God, the Creator of all creation, to deliver me from airy ordeals and eternal torment: may I always glorify the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, and your merciful intercession, now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Favors desperate and weak-spirited people to get out of difficult situations.

The Lord awarded the future saint with the gift of healing in his childhood. The boy could cast out demons and heal the sick. According to legend, Saint Tryphon saved one of the cities from creeping reptiles, for which Emperor Troyan, an opponent of Christianity, subjected him to torture, and then ordered his head to be cut off, which is still kept in the Montenegrin Cathedral of St. Tryphon.

The saint does not refuse anyone; he opens new paths for those who believe in his help and gives strength for good deeds.

Prayer to Saint Tryphon

O holy martyr of Christ Tryphon, I resort to you in prayer, before your image I pray. Ask our Lord for help in my work, for I am suffering inactively and hopelessly. Pray to the Lord and ask him for help in worldly affairs. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen

Mitrofan Voronezhsky

They pray at conflict situations At work.

In his youth, he served as a priest in one of the parishes, thanks to which his household lived in prosperity and peace. Having become a widower, the cleric began to think about asceticism and was appointed Bishop of Voronezh.

Mitrofan became famous for his deeds of mercy and assistance in resolving conflicts. He will always stand up for those who ask.

Prayer to Saint Mitrofan of Voronezh

O Bishop of God, Saint Mitrofan of Christ, hear me, a sinner (name), at this hour, in which I bring you prayer, and pray for me, a sinner, to the Lord God, may he forgive my sins and grant (request for work) prayers, holy, yours. Amen.

Spiridon Trimifuntsky

It must come from the very heart, it will not help in deception, but the pure thoughts of the person asking will bring great benefit.

You can ask him, in addition to resolving troubles, for promotions and salary increases.

We must not forget about thanking the saint who appears before the Lord for his help.

Prayer to Spyridon of Trimifuntsky

O blessed Saint Spyridon! Ask us, God's servants (names), from Christ and God for our peaceful, serene life, mental and physical health. Remember us at the throne of the Savior and beg the Lord to grant forgiveness of our sins, a comfortable and peaceful life. We send glory and thanksgiving to the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Prayer for work will strengthen the spirit and faith, relieve temptations, and help in difficult situations.

O glorious Apostle Peter, who gave up his soul for Christ and fertilized His pasture with his blood! Hear your children's prayers and sighs, now offered with a broken heart. Bear our infirmities and do not leave us in spirit. We ask for intercession for all of us. Help us with your prayers, turn the face of Christ to our requests and grant us, together with all the saints, the blessed Kingdom and Marriage of His Lamb. Amen.

Prayer to the Optina Elders

Prayer to the Optina Elders

Lord, give me s peace of mind to meet everything that the coming day will bring me. Let me completely surrender to Your holy will. For every hour of this day, instruct and support me in everything. Whatever news I receive during the day, teach me to accept it with a calm soul and a firm conviction that everything is Your holy will. In all my words and deeds, guide my thoughts and feelings. In all unforeseen cases, do not let me forget that everything was sent down by You. Teach me to act directly and wisely with each member of my family, without confusing or upsetting anyone. Lord, give me strength to endure the fatigue of the coming day and all the events during the day. Guide my will and teach me to pray, believe, hope, endure, forgive and love. Amen.

In the Psalter, the Word of God is revealed to prayer books.

David's songs help to get rid of any everyday misfortune, to appease ill-wishers who do evil. Reading psalms can protect against demonic attacks.

Read the psalms:

  • 57 - if the situation around you has become tense and there is no way to calm the “storm”, prayer will protect and call on the Lord’s help;
  • 70 - will suggest a way out of the conflict, will calm down the tyrant boss;
  • 7 - helps to resist grievances and quarrels, indicates the right steps to solve the problem;
  • 11 - pacifies the spirit of an evil person;
  • 59 - reveals the truth to the boss if the employee has become a victim of gossip or conspiracy.

Prayer Rules

When entering the Holy Temple, you must cross yourself three times. It is important to touch your body with your fingers and not cross the air.

Having entered the chapel of the temple and stood before the face of the saint, you need to concentrate and devote your thoughts to the saint to whom the prayer will be addressed.

It is advisable, before turning to a saint, to read his life, confess his sins, and take communion. And strong faith and Orthodox spirit will give strength in the current situation.

In petitions, do not forget about basic gratitude. Even if the request has not yet been fulfilled, then you need to continue praying, not renounce the saints and not blame anyone.

It should be remembered that for every action and event there is a time and place.

Prayer for work to Saint Tryphon

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Through prayer you can get what you want only if your desire is strong and your faith is strong. Don't let doubt weaken your faith.

ask seriously and sincerely and the path will open.

Some prayers that give strength act in conjunction with talismans and amulets.

wisdom to know the difference between them.

But, God, give me the courage not to give up what I think is right, even if it is useless.”

Prayer for healing the soul

I am an empty vessel that needs to be filled;

my faith is small - strengthen it, my love is shallow - deepen it;

my defense is weak - strengthen it;

my heart is restless - bring peace to it;

my thoughts are shallow - make them noble;

my fears are great - eliminate them;

my soul is sick - heal it.

Strengthen my faith that everything can be achieved through love.”

“Bless me with the peace of a happy home. Protect us from all dangers and misfortunes. We believe in You, We know that You care about everything in the world. Your will guides everything. Your love protects everything. Protect me from unseemly actions. Let the law of good rule my life and control everything I say and do. Give us your full blessing.”

“Cast out all the bitterness that is inside me, show me how to show love and concern for those who are far away. May I always love and protect those close to my heart. Lead them to my love. May I touch everyone I meet with generous kindness.”

“Reach out your hands and protect me from unnecessary worries in this life. Make my enemies powerless, unable to injure, destroy and inflict harm on those who began under Your protection. I call You with all my heart and look forward to Your consolation.”

“Take my hands, Lord, breathe into them the strength to carry out the tasks and responsibilities of this day, overcome my weakness, gain clarity of thought and manifest my abilities. Let me have the faith to stick to what is best for my work, play, and life.”

Protective prayer

“I beg You to protect me and lend a helping hand in my journeys. Bring me what is mine and bless me with the fruits of my labor. Give me part of the land's gifts, improve my living conditions. Give me confidence in Your protection, protect me from those who want to harm my body or my property.”

“Remove from me any intentions of harm, all destructive signs. Replace them with truth and kindness. Breathe into me wisdom from which I will receive strength of character, calm confidence and loyal friendship. Let me use knowledge to make a loyal friend.

“I ask that my eyes be opened to things that I have not been able to see or understand before. Guide my steps in the right direction so that the bumpy road becomes smooth and safe for travel. Protect my body from evil forces and my thoughts are from immorality, remove sin from my soul. Tell me the right answer. Make me understand and accept the solution You offer to deal with my problem. Take my lips and speak through them, take my head and think through them, take my heart and fill it with love and kindness that I want to pour out on those around me.”

“Give me justice, compassion and forgiveness in my dealings with the authorities. Judge me with the kindness with which I treat others. Place upon all courts the spirit of wisdom and understanding, that they may discern the truth and act impartially according to the law.”

“I pray that there will be distance between me and my enemy. I speak with humility so that we are separated from one another. Remove this enemy so that peace can reign in my home and heart. I think about the peace that will come to me.

“Be with me and support me with Your presence. Be my friend and refresh my soul. Send me clarity of mind, peace of mind and faith so that I can have patience and great unceasing love going into and out of my heart. Show me the purpose of my life, give me the courage and perseverance to achieve the goal that You have assigned to me.”

Daily prayer for purity of thoughts

“Help me to be kind in words and generous in deeds. Help me to forget myself and turn my love and affection towards others. Make me beautiful in soul, clear and pure in thoughts, beautiful and strong in body. Increase my powers of body and spirit to direct them towards those whom I call. I am grateful for everything I received on this day and for the love for others that You have placed in my heart.”

“Be with me on this day and help fill my head with bright thoughts, my body with harmless habits and my soul with an innocent spirit. Help me control my desires for those foods that are harmful to my body, thoughts, soul or life itself. I am confident in Your help. With this help I will overcome all the temptations of this day.”

Who to pray for illnesses

To heal from illnesses, you must first believe in success. Even the most best prayer It will not be effective if you read it automatically, without a soul. Who do they usually pray to for various illnesses? If children are sick, they resort to prayer to the Mother of God and Barbara the Great Martyr. Women who dream of children can pray to Sergei Sarovsky. For healing they also turn to St. Nicholas the Wonderworker, the Mother of God, the healer Panteleimon, and Christ.

Orthodox prayer for difficulties and troubles at work

Every person has troubles in life that require help from Above. In many situations, we pray for the protection of the Holy Saints, because they have the boldness to pray for us before the Almighty. In addition, they, too, were ordinary people in their time and understand our problems.

And after death, the Lord granted them the gift of helping people in various situations.

When to ask for help through prayer

Work is where a person spends most of his life. Labor activity gives us the opportunity to provide ourselves and our family with material benefits.

But sometimes at work there comes a “dark streak”, a series of troubles, which forces you to look for a way out of the problems. Of course, you can endure attacks from colleagues and superiors, be under stress every day, or look for a new job, which is quite difficult during a crisis.

Prayer for troubles at work to the Saints can influence the situation and change it for the better.

Icon of the Most Holy Theotokos “Seven Arrows”

The Most Pure Virgin Mary is able to solve any problem, bring reason to enemies and calm their hearts. The Mother of God will protect you from enemies, eliminate omissions among colleagues, and improve the microclimate.

O Many-sorrowful Mother of God, who surpassed all the daughters of the earth in Her purity and in the multitude of sufferings You brought to the earth! Accept our long-suffering sighs and keep us under the shelter of Your mercy, for you are not known for refuge and warm intercession, but, as having boldness in the One who was born of You, help and save us with Your prayers, so that we may without stumbling reach the Kingdom of Heaven, where with all the saints we will sing praises to the One God in the Trinity, always, now, and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Saint Nicholas the Wonderworker

Nicholas of Myra is one of the most beloved and especially revered saints among our people.

His miracles are countless; he helps people in almost all matters and life situations, including resolving work conflicts.

Oh, all-holy Nicholas, exceedingly saintly servant of the Lord, our warm intercessor, and everywhere in sorrow a quick helper! Help me, a sinner and sad person in this present life, beg the Lord God to grant me forgiveness of all my sins, which I have sinned greatly from my youth, in all my life, in deed, word, thought and all my feelings; and at the end of my soul, help me the accursed, beg the Lord God, the Creator of all creation, to deliver me from airy ordeals and eternal torment: may I always glorify the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, and your merciful intercession, now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Saint Tryphon

Prayer to the Saint favors desperate and weak-spirited people to get out of a difficult situation.

The Lord awarded the future saint with the gift of healing in his childhood. The boy could cast out demons and heal the sick. According to legend, Saint Tryphon saved one of the cities from creeping reptiles, for which Emperor Troyan, an opponent of Christianity, subjected him to torture, and then ordered his head to be cut off, which is still kept in the Montenegrin Cathedral of St. Tryphon.

The saint does not refuse anyone; he opens new paths for those who believe in his help and gives strength for good deeds.

O holy martyr of Christ Tryphon, I resort to you in prayer, before your image I pray. Ask our Lord for help in my work, for I am suffering inactively and hopelessly. Pray to the Lord and ask him for help in worldly affairs. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen

Mitrofan Voronezhsky

They pray to the saint in conflict situations at work.

In his youth, he served as a priest in one of the parishes, thanks to which his household lived in prosperity and peace. Having become a widower, the cleric began to think about asceticism and was appointed Bishop of Voronezh.

Mitrofan became famous for his deeds of mercy and assistance in resolving conflicts. He will always stand up for those who ask.

O Bishop of God, Saint Mitrofan of Christ, hear me, a sinner (name), at this hour, in which I bring you prayer, and pray for me, a sinner, to the Lord God, may he forgive my sins and grant (request for work) prayers, holy, yours. Amen.

Spiridon Trimifuntsky

Prayer to the holy Wonderworker must come from the very heart; he will not help in deception, and the pure thoughts of the person asking will bring great benefit.

We must not forget about thanking the saint who appears before the Lord for his help.

O blessed Saint Spyridon! Ask us, God's servants (names), from Christ and God for our peaceful, serene life, mental and physical health. Remember us at the throne of the Savior and beg the Lord to grant forgiveness of our sins, a comfortable and peaceful life. We send glory and thanksgiving to the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, now and ever, and unto ages of ages. Amen.

Apostle Peter

Prayer for work will strengthen the spirit and faith, relieve temptations, and help in difficult situations.

Prayer to the Optina Elders

Lord, let me meet with peace of mind everything that the coming day will bring me. Let me completely surrender to Your holy will. For every hour of this day, instruct and support me in everything. Whatever news I receive during the day, teach me to accept it with a calm soul and a firm conviction that everything is Your holy will. In all my words and deeds, guide my thoughts and feelings. In all unforeseen cases, do not let me forget that everything was sent down by You. Teach me to act directly and wisely with each member of my family, without confusing or upsetting anyone. Lord, give me strength to endure the fatigue of the coming day and all the events during the day. Guide my will and teach me to pray, believe, hope, endure, forgive and love. Amen.

Reading Psalms

In the Psalter, the Word of God is revealed to prayer books.

David's songs help to get rid of any everyday misfortune, to appease ill-wishers who do evil. Reading psalms can protect against demonic attacks.

  • 57 - if the situation around you has become tense and there is no way to calm the “storm”, prayer will protect and call on the Lord’s help;
  • 70 - will suggest a way out of the conflict, will calm down the tyrant boss;
  • 7 - helps to resist grievances and quarrels, indicates the right steps to solve the problem;
  • 11 - pacifies the spirit of an evil person;
  • 59 - reveals the truth to the boss if the employee has become a victim of gossip or conspiracy.

Prayer Rules

When entering the Holy Temple, you must cross yourself three times. It is important to touch your body with your fingers and not cross the air.

Having entered the chapel of the temple and stood before the face of the saint, you need to concentrate and devote your thoughts to the saint to whom the prayer will be addressed.

It is advisable, before turning to a saint, to read his life, confess his sins, and take communion. And strong faith and the Orthodox spirit will give strength in this situation.

In petitions, do not forget about basic gratitude. Even if the request has not yet been fulfilled, then you need to continue praying, not renounce the saints and not blame anyone.

It should be remembered that for every action and event there is a time and place.

Prayer for work so that everything goes well

Many people, despite a good education and their abilities, cannot find a job or are faced with different problems, which do not allow progress career ladder. In such a situation, you can ask for help from Higher powers, using prayers for successful work. For the sacred words to be effective, it is important to have unwavering faith and good intentions. Eat different prayers that will help in specific situations. You can read prayers at any time, but the main thing is to do it every day, and if necessary, several times. If possible, go to church and place a candle in front of the image of the saint.

Prayer for work, so that everything goes well for Tryphon

People experiencing difficulties at work are helped by Saint Tryphon, who can be contacted with any problems, for example, when searching suitable place, for career advancement, before a responsible meeting, etc. It is best to have his icon before your eyes. The prayer to Saint Tryphon sounds like this:

“Oh, holy martyr of Christ Tryphon! Quick helper of Christians, I appeal to you and pray, looking at your holy image. Hear me, as you always hear the faithful who honor the memory of you and your sacred death. After all, you yourself, when dying, said that the one who, being in sadness and need, calls on you in his prayers, will be freed from all troubles, misfortunes and unfavorable circumstances. You freed the Roman Caesar from a demon and healed him from an illness, so hear me and help me, preserving me always and in everything. Become my assistant. Be my protection from evil demons and a guiding star to the King of Heaven. Pray to God for me, may He have mercy on me with your prayers and give me joy and blessing in my work. May he remain by my side and bless what I have planned and increase my well-being, so that I work for the glory of his holy name! Amen!"

Prayer for well-being at work to Matrona of Moscow

Saint Matrona is the main helper of all people who turn to her with sincere prayers. The Wonderworker helps in various issues, including those related to work. If you want to find a decent place, raise wages or get a new position, read the following prayer in front of the icon:

“Our Holy Mother Matronushka, with your sacred words help the blessed servant of God (name) to find the service necessary for salvation and spiritual growth, so as not to give up your personal spirit for sinful, worldly and vain things. Give me the strength to find a merciful one who gives work, who respects the covenants of the Lord, who does not force him to work on holy Sundays and holidays. May you protect me, the servant of God (name) in the service, from all temptation and black malice, may this work only be for good and salvation, for the benefit of the Fatherland and the Lord, and for the happiness of my parents. Amen".

A strong prayer for good luck in work to Nikolai Ugodnik

During his lifetime, Nicholas the Wonderworker helped all people in need to cope with various problems, but now people can turn to him in their prayers.

The presented prayer can be used by students who want to find a decent job, as well as by people who are afraid of being fired or want to advance in their career. The prayer to Nicholas the Ugodnik sounds like this:

“Saint Nicholas, universal benefactor. Free my soul from fierce evil and pestering envy from bad people. If my work does not go well, and the blame for everything is a cursed intention, do not punish my enemies, cleanse their souls from their own troubles. And if there is soot of sin on me, accept the request for sincere repentance, grant me miraculous help for righteous work. Send down service for me so that it is in accordance with my conscience, and my pay is according to my merits. Let it be so. Amen".

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What to do if you don’t have the strength to pray?

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Archpriest Sergiy Navalikhin, rector of the Church of Blessed Xenia of St. Petersburg in Vinnitsa, is sure of both illness and fatigue.

The Kingdom of God is taken by force. This means that you need to work on yourself, push yourself. It depends, of course, on the person’s condition and on what rule he reads. If a person cannot read at all due to illness, that’s understandable. But can’t he say “Lord, have mercy”?!

God looks at the heart, and not at some kind of correctness. If a person comes tired and cannot pray, but sits down to watch TV, this is deceit.

It is difficult for him to pray - he can shorten his cell rule in some ways and read it while sitting. You can even lie down if you are really that tired. But such questions are discussed with the confessor in individually. You can pray even in limbo. Ask God for forgiveness that you are praying in this situation, thank the Lord for giving you health and prosperity for today.

And one more thing about fatigue: we are not silent slaves to work until you fall. Yes, you can be exhausted to the point of exhaustion. But we wash ourselves and make our bed, which means we are still able to work hard before lying down.

And if it seems that you don’t have the strength to pray, then you have to force yourself. A tired person, looking at TV or a computer, does not rest - he still perceives some kind of information. He works. Consequently, can’t he say “Lord, have mercy”, “Our Father” or that prayer that he knows by heart, and ask God for forgiveness: “Well, I can’t do it anymore - I’m so tired”?!

This is more of a self-justification: they say, I’m so tired that I don’t even have the strength to cross myself. Can you lift the remote control and click on channels?!

And when a person is so sick that he cannot get up, you can at least read “Lord, have mercy,” and God also accepts this prayer if it comes from the heart.

Any prayer must be sincere. You can shorten the rule and it is better to read one, but deep prayer, from the heart, than to read ten, when the tongue says one thing, and thoughts wander in another.

If you do not force yourself to pray, a person slowly relaxes. Once you let it go, twice, three times - and a habit arises, self-pity. Then the person seems to be less tired and no longer sick, but says few prayers. He's already used to short rule and does not increase the load. A lot of things intersect here - cunning, relaxation, indulgence, self-justification, self-pity, and getting used to ease. God sees with what heart we approach prayer.

Interviewed by Marina Bogdanova

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