How to visit a cemetery correctly? A question that worries many relatives of deceased people.

It turns out that in the old days there were beliefs that our great-grandmothers adhered to.

Traditionally, many superstitions are associated with cemeteries, which, by the way, are not groundless. Signs in a graveyard can warn of impending danger, so burials should be visited with the utmost caution. And the signs seen at the resting places must be treated carefully.
First of all, you need to remember - under no circumstances should you disturb the dead, this will lead to disaster. You shouldn’t come to them empty-handed either; bring sweets that you will leave at the grave.

In order not to “take” misfortune and misfortune from the cemetery into the house, psychics advise sticking to simple rules behavior.

Alexander Zhukov, psychic: “The very first thing is that you need to enter the cemetery correctly, in order not to leave your luck, happiness there, and most importantly, to “catch on” to various diseases.
You must enter the cemetery with open hands., if you are carrying a bag, you should not hold it in your palm. It must be hung over the hand so that all fingers and hands are open.
This is done so that you don’t take anything with you, just the good that is in your life today.”

At the same time, we should not forget about what can and cannot be said at the resting places. You can share your experiences with deceased relatives, but not complain, but rather share. However words should not cause envy or excessive pity: in both cases, the dead can “take” you to their place.
Remember to allow yourself you can only be open with a relative you trusted during your lifetime and with whom they were close.

There is such a sign: Whatever good you say on a grave will remain on it. A phrase like: “I feel so bad, I want to die...” can become fatal. The spirits of the cemetery may view this as a call to action.

In addition, we should not forget that not everyone can talk with the dead, or come to the cemetery.

Alexander Zhukov, psychic: “I’ll say right away - Pregnant women are not allowed in the cemetery! Not for a funeral, not for parent's day. Generally not possible. According to signs, the following events may occur:

The souls of the dead will take the soul of the unborn baby with them;
. An alien soul can inhabit an unborn child.

This sign has been preserved for a long time and was associated with high infant mortality and the danger of difficult childbirth in pregnant women. Now this sign is not so relevant, so treat it wisely.
If a pregnant woman needs to say goodbye to the deceased, or at the call of her heart to visit the graves of relatives, then she should wear something red, tie her hand with a red thread, or keep a piece of red cloth in her pocket.

And under no circumstances Children under 12 years old cannot be brought to the cemetery. This is very dangerous for the child’s health and his future. You can completely change the fate of a child! From a mystical point of view, the aura of children is very weak, and it is difficult for children to protect themselves from the penetration of negative energy.

It is forbidden coming to a funeral to say goodbye to one person, simultaneously visit the graves of other people buried nearby.

Violation of at least one of the rules may entail the attraction of a large amount of negative information, which, like a weight, will pull you to the ground.

Visiting a cemetery for remembrance

Undoubtedly, paying one’s last respects to the deceased and honoring his memory by attending the funeral is an indicator of the moral and ethical standards prescribed by society.

A cemetery is a special place. It “connects” the world of the living and the world of the dead. Therefore, it is necessary to treat him with respect and observe certain signs and rules of behavior so as not to anger the dead and not pay for your disrespect.

❧ You need to carefully prepare for visiting a cemetery, paying special attention to your clothing. Traditional colors are white and black. More than anything Black color is suitable for a cemetery, since it is considered a mourning color, a color symbolizing grief. If your wardrobe does not have items of suitable colors, you should choose clothes in muted tones.

❧ Legs must be covered. It is unacceptable to walk around the cemetery in open sandals or high-heeled shoes. The graveyard is a place where “dead” energy accumulates; the earth is especially heavily saturated with it. There is a saying: the dead attract the living. It can be regarded as a warning - cemetery soil, when it comes into contact with bare skin, has a negative effect on a person. First of all, the negative impact affects his health.

❧ At the cemetery before noon, after noon at church. It is better to visit deceased relatives before lunch, otherwise in the afternoon the spirits may play tricks on the visitors.

❧ You can’t swear in a cemetery - all the swearing will remain on you. It's really, really true. Everything bad that is said in the cemetery falls on the shoulders of the one who spoke out. There can't even be other options here. In a cemetery you need to be especially careful both in statements and in deeds. In general, when staying in a cemetery, you need to be very careful. Attentiveness and politeness are qualities that the deceased greatly value. This is the very case when the idea that life does not end after death has special meaning. Therefore, it is necessary to show respect to those who have already left, otherwise they may punish.

❧ If you bring beautiful bouquet- this is great, just don’t neglect the recommendation to bring even number colors.
When throwing away withered flowers, you should replace them with new ones and explain to the deceased why this is being done.

❧ If when planting flowers, digging on a grave some strange things were discovered, foreign objects, we need to take them out of the cemetery and throw them away. Ideally, burn it, trying not to get caught in the smoke.
The things on the graves could have been left behind by sorcerers causing damage. By taking such an object, a person takes part of the damage upon himself.

❧ A week after Easter, it is customary to come to the cemetery to remember relatives and friends. Eating in a cemetery, or, as is very common among the Slavs, drinking strong (alcoholic) drinks is also prohibited.
Negative energy accumulates in the cemetery, this place is not conducive to fun, people come here with grief. Food absorbs all this, and after eating you can feel unhealthy.
He also insists that funerals should not be held in the cemetery. Christian church. The funeral feast at the cemetery dates back to pagan times, when funeral rites were performed on the mounds after burial. Christianity does not support pagan traditions. Although debates about this custom are still ongoing among church theorists.
It is better to give alms to the poor and visit a temple, order a memorial service for the deceased - this way of honoring the dead is more acceptable and spiritually useful.

❧ If you still adhere to the tradition of remembering the deceased with a glass of vodka at the grave, then remember only good things about them and drink without clinking glasses, so as not to transfer trouble from one house to another.

Signs at the cemetery

There are many signs about the cemetery. Even people who are deeply indifferent to superstitions try to adhere to them. That's just the way this place is. No one knows what the world of the dead may bring, so it is better to pay close attention to the signs.

❧Grave desecrators, cemetery thieves, face a sad fate, for they are haunted by evil fate.

❧ Stumble in a cemetery- not good. Even worse is to fall. Signs advise you to immediately leave the cemetery, wash yourself with holy water, cross yourself and read the Lord’s Prayer three times.
Believe me, it doesn’t matter to your soul where you remember it - in a cemetery or in a temple, or in a conversation with your family. The main thing is that you are sincere and that these memories have a light, kind shade.

❧ As already mentioned, there is a superstition that in the cemetery You can’t talk about the successes and achievements of your life and so as not to leave everything here.

❧ Also It is not allowed to count money in the cemetery, otherwise you may never see them again. If a bill is taken out of a wallet, or it even falls to the ground, it must be left at the grave of a relative or namesake in order to pay off possible poverty and premature death.

❧ Basically, any item that falls onto the cemetery ground no longer belongs to its living owner. You shouldn't pick it up. If the item is really necessary, you need to leave a donation to the deceased and the owner of the cemetery - a bottle of vodka and sweets.

❧ From the cemetery under no circumstances You can't bring any things home(this does not apply to sweets that children collect, since they remember all the dead with them). This will harm the one who took the things and the people who used them.
Do not take anything from the cemetery or bring it into the house, no matter how valuable it may be. According to signs, you will take this from the dead, and they will punish you with troubles and illnesses.
This item can cause harm not only to the person who brought this item home from the cemetery, but also to any other person who picks it up.

Important! Handkerchiefs with tears are also thrown away during funerals when burying the grave; they are not taken out of the cemetery!

❧ Don’t take photos at the cemetery; You will remain surrounded by negative energy in the picture, and who knows how this will affect your destiny.
Taking photographs against the backdrop of many graves, you capture the invisible world of the spirits of the deceased and otherworldly entities, which will subsequently easily find their way to your home.

Sign of a broken tombstone

❧ A monument or cross fell down for no reason, it means that the soul of the deceased has not completed important matters for it, something is bothering it.

There are also forgotten, outdated signs that are believed only in the outback, in villages where modern morals have not yet reached. Thus, a sign about a broken tombstone a priori cannot promise anything pleasant and kind. If the monument deteriorated without human intervention, and did not suffer at the hands of vandals and looters, then in the near future there will be another dead person in the family of the deceased.

It doesn’t matter what kind of damage the burial place received: whether the cross simply broke, the gravestone or the pedestal itself cracked, or the ground subsided and a deep hole formed - every change threatens the relatives of the person lying here with another death. You can figure out who the old woman with the scythe will look at next time by determining which side the earth collapsed from:

• from the southern side - a man will die;
• the north side “fell” - a woman will die;
• the eastern edge subsided - an elderly family member will die;
• on the western side the earth has gone - death will take a small child.

❧ Suicides can only be remembered when a bird pecks at the grain scattered on their graves. A few grains of wheat are sprinkled on the grave of the suicide and they are watched from afar: if the bird does not peck those grains, then there is no need to remember the deceased, except on Saturdays of St. Demetrius and All Saints.

❧ If you know you will be visiting a cemetery, take water with you and When leaving, be sure to wash your hands and face, to remove negative energy.

❧ You should not drink water that flows from the water supply system located on the territory of the cemetery. It is used only for cleaning graves and monuments. You should stock up on drinking water at home before visiting the cemetery.

❧ Make sure when leaving that you do not forget anything at the cemetery, forgotten things are damaged.

❧ Always leave the cemetery the way you came. But when visiting the dead, it is better to choose different roads, at least go around your own street and go to the house on the other side.

❧ Leaving the cemetery, You cannot turn back, even if you are called out or called. It is believed that deceased souls wander among the graves and do not realize that they no longer have a place in the world of the living. When a man turns around, departed soul may perceive this as an invitation to follow a living person. As a result, a visitor to the graveyard will bring a deceased person into his home, which can cause a lot of trouble to the inhabitants of the house.

❧ Also, signs say that after visiting the cemetery it is important to dry your feet thoroughly, so as not to damage your home with cemetery soil. This land can cause many health problems; it carries bad energy.

❧ After leaving the cemetery and coming home, it is important to properly warm your hands (even if they are not frozen)- hold in hot water over fire.
It is best to light a church candle with matches (only them) and warm your hands over it. Place the palms of your hands as close to the candle fire as you can bear. Move and “burn” the entire area of ​​​​your palms and fingers in this way.
After this, the candle cannot be blown out; carefully extinguish it with your fingers. This is done so that you don’t bring death into the house, don’t drag it on yourself, and don’t get sick.

❧ You cannot visit anyone after the funeral- you will bring death to the house of the person you visited. But it is advisable to wrap it somewhere public place before you return home. It is believed that the tradition of wakes in a dining room or cafe is a consequence of this sign.

Cat in the cemetery

It has long been known that the dead are able to transmit information through various animals: birds, cats, dogs. It is not for nothing that in the old days birds were considered the embodiment of souls that had lost their human bodies. But birds flying over a graveyard or a house where a dead person lies are not as dangerous as a cat, which, remember, was considered a mythical, sacred animal by the ancient Egyptians.

In the home where death occurred, pets were immediately removed and isolated - so that the spirit of the deceased would not move in with his pet.

The appearance of a cat in a cemetery is interpreted as follows:

• if a cat is lying on a grave or walking nearby, try to leave this place - most likely, there is a strong anomalous zone that destroys a person’s aura;
• if the cat is black, then perhaps the witch went out for a walk, or it is the rushing soul of a sinner;
• white cat - the soul of a righteous man who has not completed his journey on earth, warns of impending danger or illness;
• if the cat just slipped past you in the cemetery - rest assured - it’s just someone’s spirit who came to look at a new friend, that is, at the one who is being buried.

In any case, treat the cat with respect - do not hit or drive it away, it is better to distract it from yourself (if it has followed you) with some kind of gift.

❧ A good sign for a person who has passed on to the next world and his relatives is finding an old, earlier burial with intact bones in a grave being prepared. An ancient belief says that the deceased is the afterlife will find consolation and will not bother his relatives, appearing to them in dreams and hallucinations.

Numerous signs and superstitions for the people present at the cemetery are full of secrets that the souls of the dead want to convey to them. Perhaps you have seen, while at the funeral ceremony of someone close, how astral body leaves the body shell that has become unnecessary. This happens at the moment when the first handful of earth touches the lid of the coffin. According to the sign, the soul takes off either laughing, or crying, grieving.
Based on materials from grimuar.ru, mystic-world.ru, charybary.ru

Cemeteries should be located south of the church; on the north side only suicides are buried and stillborn babies.

The graves are dug in the direction from east to west, and the coffin with the body is laid with its feet facing east - according to legend, in order to make it easier to rise on Judgment Day.

Even if you don’t believe in omens, you shouldn’t violate the ethics of visiting places of grief... All rituals associated with the deceased appeared for a reason and it’s not in vain that people cherish their traditions.

A cemetery is a special place where two worlds are intertwined - the living and the dead. From time immemorial, a huge number of rumors and gossip circulated around the churchyards; they were constantly surrounded by an aura of mysticism and mystery. And to this day, signs in the cemetery are of a special nature, because even people far from superstitions try to listen to them.

Rules for visiting a cemetery: choosing appropriate clothing

Every person will sooner or later be faced with the need to visit a graveyard. But not everyone knows the rules for visiting it to avoid further troubles. The first thing to do is to choose the right clothes:

• Black color is preferred, as it is considered mourning, but you can also choose clothes in other muted, pastel shades. You should not wear colorful outfits even if you are visiting old graves, because it looks inappropriate and ridiculous. Not best choice White clothing will also appear, although in some countries it is also considered mourning.
• You should only wear closed shoes on your feet, since skin contact with dead earth can bring a huge number of troubles and health problems. If the cemetery is visited in the summer, then in front of the gate you can put on shoe covers on your sandals or change into different shoes. The earth from the graveyard is saturated with negative dead energy, which has a destructive effect on living flesh.
• It is better to cover your head with a scarf or any comfortable headdress. This is due to the fact that hair from an uncovered head can fall onto the grave and thereby connect the deceased with the living. In addition, human hair is a valuable attribute used in black magic.

After returning from the necropolis, all clothes should be immediately removed and put into the washing machine, even if they visually seem clean. Special attention is given to shoes that need to be thoroughly washed, especially the soles. Even a few specks of dust from the dead earth remaining on shoes can bring health problems, family problems, or a streak of bad luck to its owner.

How to behave in a cemetery so as not to provoke the wrath of the deceased?

The necropolis is a special place where you need to follow the rules of behavior, because frivolous actions and inappropriate actions can anger both the deceased and the surrounding living people. Basic rules of behavior in the cemetery:

• It is forbidden to talk loudly, let alone laugh, quarrel, or discuss each other and the deceased. Conversations are allowed only in a calm voice, mentioning only the good things that happened in the life of the deceased.
• It is recommended to refrain from drinking alcoholic beverages, because they are displeasing to neither the deceased nor the church. You should not come to the grave drunk. If it is impossible to stop drinking alcohol, then this should be done in moderation, avoiding a drunken state.
• It is prohibited to take any things from the coffin or grave, as they are the property of the deceased. If there is a need to replace a broken vase or any other item on the grave, it must be immediately replaced with a new one.
• Under no circumstances should you take pictures in front of a grave or cemetery or shoot a video. The photo will be imprinted with negative energy, which will constantly affect the person captured on it.
• You should not bring children under 12 years of age to the churchyard, as their energy is not yet able to resist spirits. Also, pregnant women and women during their menstrual periods should not visit the necropolis.
• You cannot step on or jump over graves, as this will anger the deceased. If this happens, then you need to immediately step back and ask the deceased for forgiveness.
• When leaving the churchyard, under no circumstances should you turn around, even if someone called out to you. The living are constantly followed by spirits, and after such a turn they can follow, and not remain outside the gates of the necropolis.
• Before visiting, you should remove all metal jewelry, as they attract and accumulate negative energy. You can only leave pectoral cross, but it needs to be hidden under clothes.
• If any foreign things were found at the grave, and especially small change, candles and other strange attributes, then under no circumstances should they be picked up. You are allowed to sweep them away with a broom and burn them.

Most people are afraid of churchyards, because they are the largest concentration negative energy. But if you know how to behave correctly in a cemetery and follow all the specified rules, then they will not pose any danger to life. In addition, everyone alive is obliged to visit the graves of their ancestors, monitor their order, remember the dead, and therefore you should not refuse a trip to the necropolis.

Signs at the cemetery: how not to get yourself into trouble?

For thousands of years, a considerable number of signs and superstitions have been associated with cemeteries. Some of them have long been dispelled by science, and some are still considered true. Whether to take superstitions seriously or not to pay any attention to them is up to everyone to decide for themselves. But it’s worth familiarizing yourself with common signs.

• Don’t count money in the churchyard - you’ll lose it and never see it again. It’s not worth not only counting, but even taking out banknotes from your wallet, as this risks losing them. If the money was taken from the wallet or was even dropped on the ground, then it should be left in the cemetery for redemption. Also, you should not pick up things that someone has lost, even if they are valuable.
• Falling into a cemetery means illness or death. But if this happens, then you need to immediately leave the churchyard, wash yourself with holy water and read the “Our Father” three times.
• If you tell about your successes at the necropolis, you will leave them there. Indeed, the cemetery is not the best place for boasting, because this is a place of mourning and memory. At graves it is customary to talk only about the deceased.
• If a cross falls for no reason or a monument breaks, then the deceased is restless and can cause harm to others. It is believed that a spontaneously broken tombstone threatens a new deceased in the family. To find out what is bothering the deceased, you need to consult with a clergyman as quickly as possible or make an appointment with a medium.
• The grave collapses immediately after burial - to a new deceased.
• To the cemetery before lunch, and after lunch to church. Since ancient times, it has been customary to visit graves before sunset, and preferably before lunch, since spirits can cause great harm later.

Many signs concern animals on graves, especially those associated with cats. It is believed that if a cat simply lies on a grave or walks only around one place, then it is considered abnormal and it is better to avoid it. The black cat is the soul of a witch or sinner, and the white cat is the soul of a righteous man warning of trouble. In any case, you should not offend the animal, because it could be the most ordinary domestic cat, just passing by the cemetery.

HOW TO BEHAVIOR CORRECTLY IN A CEMETERY...

And these rules must be followed by every visitor.

A mistake, ignoring or not knowing these rules can lead to sad consequences, which can sometimes be very difficult to correct.

When planning to visit a cemetery, it is important to properly prepare for the visit.

First of all, pay attention to your clothes and shoes. The color scheme for clothing for visiting a cemetery is usually black. Clothes are also allowed white. If you don't have these in your wardrobe color schemes, then try not to dress brightly - give preference to clothes in muted tones - the deceased do not like bright and colorful colors.

You must wear pants or a long skirt to ensure your legs are completely covered. Wearing shorts or a mini skirt is not acceptable!

In addition, you should not wear flip-flops, slippers or other open shoes. It is better to give preference to shoes, sneakers or other closed shoes without heels. It is unacceptable to wear high-heeled shoes to visit a cemetery.

If for some reason it is not convenient to walk in closed shoes, you can take with you replacement shoes. As a last resort, it is permissible to put shoe covers on your feet or plastic bags, which will then be immediately thrown into the trash.

Why is it important? Cemetery soil, dust from graves and paths between them - all this carries “dead energy.” When dead energy hits the body of a living person, it is superimposed on living energy. This usually leads to various ailments and painful conditions.

According to statistics, the legs most often suffer - fatigue appears, heaviness occurs, congestion occurs with impaired blood circulation and lymph flow, swelling increases, varicose veins develop, etc. and so on.

Pay attention to your head. Since ancient times, when visiting a cemetery, it was customary to tie a scarf around one's hair. Hair tends to fall out. Having fallen on the cemetery soil, your hair, like any other biomaterial, can attract various negativity to you. Therefore, do not comb your hair in the cemetery area.

You should also not spit in the cemetery and it is not recommended to go to the toilet. If you really feel the urge, it’s better to go out and do it outside the cemetery. Public toilets located on the territory of the cemetery should also not be visited. Toilets should be located outside the burial area.

It is also important to know that in cemetery toilets, shady specialists can blame other people’s illnesses on visitors, negative programs and troubles. Thus, after visiting such a toilet, you can receive an unexpected “gift” for yourself.

It is important to understand that dead energy is not only found underground and in graves. It is distributed everywhere within the cemetery fence, and if there is no fence or its integrity is broken, then this energy is also present outside the cemetery.

Many cemeteries have water sources - pumps, wells or taps. The water collected in them should only be used for cleaning and watering flowers and plants at the grave. You should not drink water or wash your face with it - for these purposes you should bring water from home.

While in the cemetery territory, walk along special paths or paths. Never step on, step over, or jump over graves. Not only do the residents not like it world of the dead, but also unacceptable for the world of the living. In addition, the spirit of a restless person may follow you along the trail you left - this will also not lead to anything good.

Cemeteries are sacred places where the bodies of the deceased are buried. Even according to the laws of pagan states, tombs have always been considered sacred and inviolable. While on the territory of the cemetery, it is necessary to behave respectfully towards the deceased and moderate expression of emotions. Don't be overly emotional.

Avoid laughing and crying. Suffering and lamentation are undesirable, since these emotions can cause the formation of a communication channel with the deceased, and the deceased can take the dying relative with him.

According to the rules of behavior of Orthodox Christians, when arriving at the grave of the deceased, one should light a candle (preferably a church candle) and perform a litiya (intense prayer). You can read special funeral prayers and an akathist about the repose of the departed. Then you should be silent, remembering the deceased.

Saint John Chrysostom wrote: “Let us try, as much as possible, to help the departed, instead of tears, instead of sobs, instead of magnificent tombs - with our prayers, alms and offerings for them, so that in this way both they and we will receive the promised benefits.”

The most valuable and important thing that can be done for the departed is prayer for them. The deceased does not need a coffin or a monument - all this is a tribute to tradition. It's forever alive soul feels a great need for our constant prayer, since she herself cannot do it. That is why prayer for a deceased loved one, performed at home and at the grave of the deceased, is very important.

Remembrance in the Church provides special assistance to the deceased. Therefore, before visiting the grave of a deceased relative, it is recommended that one of his relatives go to church and submit a note with the name of the deceased for commemoration at the altar.

It is best if this is a commemoration at a proskomedia - in this case, during the service for the deceased, a piece is taken out of a special prosphora, and then, as a sign of washing away his sins, they are lowered into the Chalice with the Holy Gifts.

You should not eat food near the grave or in the cemetery, as particles of dead dust and dead energy can get inside. It is also recommended to pour vodka on the grave of the deceased - this insults his memory. The custom of leaving a piece of bread, a glass of vodka and sweets at the grave “for the deceased” is an echo of paganism. You should not leave food in the cemetery; it is better to give it to a beggar or a hungry person.

During a visit, in addition to remembering a loved one, it may be necessary to clean up his grave. When cleaning, it is important to remember that the dead do not like it when any things or what belongs to them are taken from the cemetery. Therefore, when removing garbage, picking off dried grass and fallen leaves at the grave, explain to the deceased that you are doing this only for the purpose of maintaining cleanliness.

And it is very important - if you took something from the grave, put something in return. While putting things in order and removing trash, visitors usually leave flowers or some kind of treat for the deceased. When removing a broken vase from a grave, replace it with a new one.

Usually to restore order at the grave close people They take with them some rags and other equipment. It is important to know and always remember: the rags that you use to clean the cemetery should not be your personal old things that you no longer need, or the things of your loved ones!!!

Never wash or wipe monuments with old T-shirts, panties or socks, as well as any other personal items, or their scraps, if they belong to living people. For this purpose, it is better to purchase a set of disposable rags in the store, which can be thrown into the trash after cleaning.

This law also applies to other things brought from home. You should not take a broom to clean up the cemetery, even an old and no longer needed one that you used to clean your apartment, house, or area near your home. It is better to purchase a new broom from the store specifically for cleaning the cemetery, and leave it near the grave.

It is generally not recommended to take things from an apartment or house for a cemetery - it is better to buy flower vases, rags, dishes, etc. for these purposes in a store. It is allowed to bring the deceased from home only those things that only he used during his lifetime. For example, a favorite cup from which he drank (only he and no one else!), or a plate from which he liked to eat (only he and no one else!) can be brought and left at the grave.

Take back all the things you brought with you. If it is used rags, napkins and other garbage, throw it in the trash container. Do not throw or leave objects that may contain your biological material on dead ground.

Things that were in the cemetery should under no circumstances be taken home. Leave all trash that was removed from the grave in the cemetery trash can. If something needs to be taken for some special reason (for example, something requires repair in other conditions), leave something in place of this thing, and then be sure to bring it back.

Under no circumstances should a photograph of the deceased be taken home from the cemetery - the best thing to do is to bury it in a grave.

Sometimes a visitor may accidentally drop keys or any other object onto the cemetery ground. According to the laws of the cemetery, a thing that fell on the dead earth belongs to the dead. Therefore, if you are not sorry for this thing, leave it there or throw it in a trash bin on the territory. If you need this thing, then when you pick it up and take it with you, you should put something else in its place. This could be candy, cookies or some other treat.

It is definitely never recommended under any circumstances for pregnant women, nursing mothers, women with babies and women on their menstrual periods to approach the cemetery and go inside.

A pregnant woman cannot visit a cemetery for any purpose or for any reason, even:

To honor the memory of deceased loved ones, including anniversaries and memorial days;

For the purpose of participating in a funeral procession, even if a very close and dearly loved person is being buried, and you really want to see him off in last way;

For the purpose of performing any rituals or ceremonies;

In order to visit the church, which is located on the territory of the cemetery;

Neither on any memorial day, nor on religious holiday, not even a big church holiday (Easter, Trinity, etc.).

The protective energy field of a pregnant woman is divided into two - one part is used for herself and her protection, the other is used to protect the baby. Thus, at the energetic level, a pregnant woman has two energy fields. Both of these fields are easily vulnerable - one of them is temporarily weakened, and the other is just being formed.

Therefore any negative impact will have a more devastating effect on a pregnant woman than on any other person. Also, the expectant mother shares any negativity with her baby, which can lead to serious, sometimes even critical consequences for the child.

Pregnant women are very sensitive to negative energy. The following dangers may await them on the territory of the cemetery:

Dead energy found everywhere;

Entities, creatures from a parallel world, restless spirits and souls;

Specialists who have knowledge and use this knowledge to cause harm to others - sorcerers, sorceresses, magicians.

Dark specialists can long time expect your victim. If their target is the “living” and not the dead, then they need a person who breaks the rules. And it doesn’t matter whether the rules are broken consciously or out of ignorance - such a violator will still become a victim. What could happen in this case? Anything. Evil eye, damage, illness...

For example, a specialist - a magician or sorcerer - has the task of saving the life of a terminally ill person. On the territory of the cemetery, he can exchange the life of his “patient” for the life of someone not yet born child unnoticed by a pregnant woman. Ultimately, the patient will recover, and the unborn child will die in his place...

After visiting a cemetery, do not bring cemetery soil into your apartment or house with your unwashed shoes, which may be on the sole or on the sides of the sole. Be sure to take off your shoes before front door, thoroughly rinse your shoes with clean running water, clearing them of dead soil, and then take the shoes home. This is not difficult to do, especially since by doing this you will save yourself and your loved ones from many possible problems.

If you drove into the cemetery with your car, do not rush to drive it into the garage - you should definitely stop by a specialized car wash and wash off the cemetery soil and dust from the car.

Tools that you used in the cemetery should be washed with running water and dried. It is not recommended to store it in an apartment.

Of course, this article does not contain all the rules of conduct, but only some of them.

However, violation of these rules of conduct due to ignorance of these rules, or due to unwillingness to comply with them, out of stubbornness or due to the reluctance of an atheistically inclined person to believe in their effectiveness, does not exempt anyone from responsibility, and then there is a risk that one will have to pay for the mistakes made.

It is important to remember that a cemetery is a “temple of the dead”, and its own laws apply here.

Probably everyone has witnessed a sign in a cemetery that later came true. You should definitely not miss the signs that fate points to. You need to know at least a few beliefs, and then you will know what can be alarming and what you should not attach importance to.

Superstitions about funerals

A visit to a cemetery precedes the death of a loved one or his funeral. Associated with the ceremony of seeing off the deceased on his last journey a large number of ritual actions.

They have special signs at funerals and in the cemetery:

• You cannot bring fresh or artificial flowers from the cemetery, otherwise you risk getting sick.
• The same applies to any thing taken from there. By taking it, you can get other people's misfortunes.
• It is better to put the deceased’s favorite things in a coffin or bring them to the grave so that he does not come in a dream with requests to give them back.
• Eating in a cemetery or drinking alcoholic drinks also prohibited. Commemorating the deceased with food is an ancient pagan ritual that does not fit with Christian beliefs. Better give it to the poor and visit the temple, order a memorial service for the deceased. This way of honoring the dead is more acceptable and spiritually beneficial.
• Livestock is poured after the convoy carrying the coffin box so that no one else in the family will die.
• Meeting a funeral procession on the street, passing in front of a moving hearse or people carrying relics, promises danger and grief to the passerby.
• It happens that the coffin does not fit into the prepared hole. In this case, they say that the land refuses to accept the sinner or that after the deceased there will be another dead person.
• On the contrary, a good sign for a person who has passed on to the next world will be to find an old burial with intact bones in the grave being prepared. The belief says that the deceased will find consolation in the afterlife and will not bother his relatives by coming to them in dreams and hallucinations.
• You shouldn’t brag about your good life in a cemetery, otherwise you’ll lose your luck here.
• Counting money during a funeral - Bad sign, you will become a beggar. If you accidentally take the bills out of your pocket, you will have to leave them there. It can be on the grave of the person who was buried, or on the grave of a person with the same name as the owner of the money.

There are also traditions that are observed in the outback. For example, when taking a coffin with a body out of the house on a sleigh for a funeral service, the owner is supposed to look under the hooves of a horse harnessed to a cart or stick a needle without an eye into the collar. This is only a small part of the existing ones.

A priori, the sign of a broken tombstone cannot promise anything good. Provided that the monument has deteriorated without human intervention, then in the near future there will be another dead person in the family of the deceased.

It doesn’t matter what damage the burial place received: whether the cross simply broke, the gravestone cracked, or the ground sank and a deep hole formed. Each change threatens the relatives of the person lying here with another death. However, you can understand who the old woman with the scythe will look at next time by determining which side the earth collapsed from:

• from the southern side - a man will die;
• from the northern “fell” - a woman will die;
• the eastern edge has subsided - an elderly family member will die;
• the earth has left the west - death will take the little child.

Speaking about the burial place, it should be noted that the graves of evil and sinful people are covered with bad herbs: nettle, thistle, wolfberry. And where the righteous man is buried, lilies, forget-me-nots, hawthorn or roses grow.

The dead know how to transmit information through various animals and birds. It is not for nothing that in the old days birds were considered the embodiment of souls that had lost their human bodies. But birds flying over a graveyard or a house where a dead person lies are not as dangerous as a cat, which was considered a mythical animal by the ancient Egyptians.

Here's what cat signs say:

• Pets were removed from the home where death occurred for a while so that the spirit of the deceased would not move into its pet.
• Which, lying at the base of the coffin, shows that the matter will not be completed with the deceased alone, the bony one will take someone else.
• Murka, who joined the funeral procession on the way to the churchyard, should be driven away. However, do this not with kicks and screams, but with due respect, by treating your furry escort to some food.
• Don't worry if you see a cat sneaking past in the cemetery. It was just someone's spirit coming to look at a new deceased friend.

Dog in the cemetery- a negative sign and omen, especially if it hovers around the coffin. Lies under it - to another quick death.

Previously, it was believed that a black dog in a cemetery was a rebel ghoul or evil spirit. If a dog barks or howls during a funeral, it disturbs the spirits and calls them. In any case, dogs that sense the subtle worlds were always treated with caution, walked away from the animal, and did not welcome it.

Weak, impressionable natures, small children, elderly people who move poorly, etc.
Undoubtedly, paying your last respects to the deceased and honoring his memory by attending the funeral means showing the moral and ethical norm prescribed by society.

But it would be completely out of place if such a person, having become overexcited or stumbled, falls on the territory of the burial ground. He is destined for sudden death. Even simply stumbling while passing between the graves means a warning about the negative impact received here.

Superstition advises a fallen person to immediately retire home, and then read “Our Father” three times, wash with holy water, light a church candle and cross himself with it.

It doesn’t matter to the soul where a loved one remembers it. In a cemetery, in a temple or in a conversation with family. The main thing is that it is sincere, and the memories are of a bright, kind nature.

On a separate line, it is important to mention frequently asked question: Is it possible to take pictures in a cemetery? There is no sign as such, but photographs from the graveyard will not decorate a home album. But they can attract negativity into the monastery.

By taking photographs against the backdrop of many graves, you capture the invisible world of the spirits of the deceased and otherworldly entities, which will later easily find their way to you.

The article gives an idea of ​​what to do in such a case and what to expect.

Signs: a monument, a thing, a tree fell in a cemetery, a cross fell on the grave

Falling in a cemetery is not a bad thing; stumbling is not a good thing. You need to immediately leave the cemetery, wash your face with holy water and read the Our Father.

If the cross or monument falls on its own, then the soul of the deceased cannot find peace and worries about unfinished business. A cross is broken or a tombstone is cracked - to the deceased. Those who deliberately destroy monuments and desecrate graves will be punished and will be pursued by evil fate.

Signs in the cemetery about birds

Birds are considered the embodiment of the souls of the deceased, so food is left for them on their graves and there are always a lot of birds in the cemetery. It is believed that a bird flying into a window brings news of the imminent death of loved ones.

Why pregnant women should not go to a cemetery

The soul of an unborn baby can be taken by the souls of dead people, so pregnant women should avoid going to the cemetery.

According to legends, a baby can be possessed by someone else's soul. If a pregnant woman still needs to go to the cemetery, then take a red piece of paper with her, tie her hand with a red thread and wear a red dress.

When you shouldn’t go to a cemetery, signs and what you shouldn’t do there

You cannot swear in a cemetery; it is believed that all bad words remain with the person who said them.

They don’t take anything home from the cemetery, because this thing can cause harm to the owner.
You can’t count money in a cemetery, as you can lose it for a long time. If you still get the money, then leave it at the grave of a relative, there you will prevent poverty.

At the cemetery it is not customary to tell how well you live, so you can leave everything good here.

You cannot take photographs in a cemetery, because the spirits of the dead may remain in the photo. evil spirits, who will then easily find their way to you.

Folk signs at the cemetery during a funeral: a puppy appeared at the funeral, a black cat, a dog came up

If the cat lies down at the base of the coffin, then there will be another dead person. A cat that goes with a funeral procession must be carefully driven away. A black cat in a cemetery means restless soul a sinner or a witch out for a walk.

Signs and superstitions in the cemetery about the dead

If the coffin does not fit into the hole, then relatives should expect more deaths. When there are old bones in a dug grave, then this good sign. The soul of the deceased will find peace and will not annoy the living in their dreams. People wear black clothes at the cemetery; if you come in a bright, colored outfit, the devil will notice and you will become his victim.

Signs at the cemetery on Parents' Day

It is on Parents' Day that it is customary to visit the graves of the deceased. Pregnant women should not go to the cemetery on this day. If those who came to the cemetery did not remember the dead, then no one will remember them after death.

Signs for the red hill in the cemetery

On the first Sunday after Easter, the Red Hill holiday is celebrated, full of fun and joy. On this day it is not customary to go to the cemetery, but to remember the dead with sweets and food.

It is considered a good omen to see a deceased relative in a dream on this day. He is asked to fulfill cherished wish, and it comes true.

Signs on the grave: ants, it started to rain

Ants make their homes on the graves of good people; this is a good omen, and there is no need to fight them.

Rain during a funeral washes away sorrows from our souls, giving us forgiveness and farewell.

They say that these are tears over the entire human race.

If it started to rain after the funeral, it means that the soul of the deceased has found peace and tranquility.

Signs at the cemetery for radonitsa (radonitsa)

On this day, the whole family visits the graves of relatives. You must definitely say good things about them.

There is no need to worry about the death of loved ones; on Radonitsa people rejoice and believe in eternal life.

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