I write these lines on my knees.
I ask for forgiveness, forgive me quickly.
Everything that happened is gone,
And it won't happen again.
I won't offend you
I won't betray you
You will be proud of me.

I ask you to forgive me for everything,
I don't understand what happened.
Well, how could it happen:
Resentment appeared in my soul.

I promise I won't
I will offend you more.
I'll forget the bad words
And we will be happy again.

How can you avoid making mistakes?
That never happens.
The world is not simple, and sometimes it is so forgotten,
It's always so easy to stumble.

And I ask you to forgive me for this,
That incontinence led to a mistake,
I can fix everything, change it.
Excuse me and give me a smile.

How important it is in this life to be able to forgive others,
Resentment and conflicts do not need to be started.
And effective words will help us with this,
Banal three words “Excuse me”!

Resentment, like poison, poisons us,
And relationships with others worsen.
Deprives us of peace day and night,
It brings only pain and a lot of grief.

But there is one antidote,
It kills resentment instantly.
A simple phrase: “Forgive me”
Sometimes it works miracles!

“I’m sorry” can be difficult to say,
But I believe that you will forgive.
I'm sorry for all the offenses,
After all, this is quite possible.
Accept my repentance
I won't do that anymore
Let's forget all the sadness
Please forgive me!

And everything around me became sad -
The whole world seemed to freeze in anticipation:
It was so easy to offend you...
How can I get rid of pain and suffering now?

I'm sorry, I'm sorry a hundred thousand times,
Forget about that bad and alien thing,
What was not in honor between us,
And remember my love...

Sorry, forgive my mistake.
Clearly something came over me.
I won't see a smile anymore
You won't forgive me for anything.
But we can all make mistakes.
Try to understand me.
Try to make amends,
Anything you want, I can do.

There is no worse feeling than guilt.
For your pain and sorrow,
I'm sorry, I pray
I ask you for forgiveness.

I don’t understand what it was.
Why does this suddenly happen to me?
I'm suffering, I just need
Your forgiveness is simple.

I sincerely apologize
I apologize endlessly.
Make amends for all your grievances
I will definitely try.

I don't want anything between us
There remains a misunderstanding
Always belonged to you
My love, my attention.

Forgive me for this quarrel.
Perhaps the stars aligned this way
Why have we offended each other?
Forgive me before it's too late.

I have been suffering from my words for a long time,
And, as if ice is melting in the sun.
It's so lonely without you
So listen, please!

We all need forgiveness
None of us are saints.
And we express our regret
Even though it’s hard for us sometimes!

And how nice it is when they say:
“It’s okay, forget everything.
Well, who doesn’t this happen to?”
Then they will forgive us and understand us!

It’s easy to offend, but it’s not easy to find words of apology. But your forgiveness is very important to me. Take a step towards the meeting, I ask you.

Everything that happened was not out of malice, but in the heat of the moment. Please accept my apologies if you can. And if you need time to cool down, I will wait as long as necessary. And I will repeat again sincerely: I’m sorry...

Please accept my words of apology. I will try never to repeat such a mistake again and not to offend you in any way.

Asking for an apology is difficult, but necessary. If the person is dear to you. I treasure you. Sorry!

You mean a lot to me, so it is my first duty to apologize to you. My heart and conscience demand this. Accepted?

I won't allow myself anything like that again. Please accept my sincere apologies. Perhaps your resentment is too strong. But my faith in forgiveness is not inferior. Will you forgive me?

Please excuse me, my actions were impulsive and overly emotional. It’s difficult to find words, but at least with these sentences I will express my remorse for what happened...

Know that I was wrong...
Listen to my words...
I apologize
After all, I treasure you!

Don't keep grudges inside
And talk to me.
I don't have your life
Well, forgive me!

What came over me? Eclipse?
But now I repent so much...
Words of apology from me
I send a simple SMS...

Everything that was said was not said out of malice,
It's just my personality...
Forgive me, even if not right away,
But bring back peace of mind...

I want to find words of apology,
I believe that you know how to forgive with your heart.
Don’t languish in your soul for long...
Better yet, hug me soon!

Don’t waste precious minutes on grievances,
It's better to spend calories on love.
I won't hurt you anymore
After all, I’m very afraid of losing it forever!

Forgive me, although it is difficult to do after what I did to you and your feelings... Without your condescension, my soul does not find peace and suffers. I'm very embarrassed...

Sorry for the offense caused. I gave you unpleasant emotions completely undeservedly. I promise this won't happen again!

I lost my temper and hurt you... Please forgive me! Please reconsider your decision and give me a chance to get closer. Our relationship is dear to me and losing it for me is comparable to collapse!

Not everyone is able to admit their mistakes, but I perfectly understand that I screwed up! Sorry for the trouble caused. I swear this is the first and last time!

I messed up and I probably have no excuses. I won’t look for them, but I will say that I repent with all my heart... Forgive me, please...

I will ask for your forgiveness as long as it takes for you to change your anger to mercy. At least just listen to my pleas for forgiveness. I value our relationship and I was one hundred percent wrong...

Forgive me for acting rashly and causing offense in the heat of the moment. I didn't want you to feel uncomfortable, believe me.

Looking for ways to apologize to your loved one, be it a guy or a girl? Then read a beautiful apology to a girl or guy written in your own words. These original apologies can be sent to a person via SMS, social network or in the form of a postcard, which will definitely make the person to whom they are addressed smile.

Sometimes it's hard to admit when we make a mistake, especially when it hurts someone we love. But admitting your mistake and apologizing is the best thing you can do to prove your sincere regret.

Therefore, we want you to read and enjoy the phrases we have collected specifically for reconciliation with a loved one whom you might have offended or disappointed in some way.

Choose the most appropriate apology template for your situation. And if it is not too late, then let the words testify to your regret for you.

So what are you waiting for? Read these phrases about forgiveness carefully right now. And then, with words of sincere regret, ask for an apology from your loved one.

Beautiful apologies to a girl

• My lies may have been the dark clouds, but your forgiveness will be the stars and the sun in our relationship. I beg your pardon.
• If you don’t see the tears in my eyes, then I beg you to at least feel the pain in my heart. I am sorry.
• It's sad that your love so kind was spoiled by my selfish mind. It's sad that your so selfless love had to deal with all this mess. And now, ironically, my regret and grief are seen as fake. Tell me, what do I need to do to make you believe in the sincerity of my apology? I'm ready to do it.
• My dishonest mind made the mistake of lying to you. But my heart and soul are forever devoted to love only for you. Therefore, I ask for your forgiveness.

Apologizing to a girl in your own words

When you say your apologies, speak in your own words, but sincerely, from the heart, and then such words are more readily believed. Below you will find several examples of such apologies. (You can read more about that by following the link).

• I never wanted to be indifferent and remain on the sidelines. I'm sorry that my behavior has made you feel like we're drifting apart. My behavior was stupid, but my love for you is the greatest proof of my bitter regret about what happened. Please, if you can forgive me, please forgive me.
• I know that you want to leave because you are tired of me. But I won't rest until I finally see you. I understand that you want to live separately, because after our quarrels you feel sick. But I won't rest until I do everything right. And I won’t make amends so that you can forgive me.

• Forgiveness is an integral part of being in a relationship as intimate as ours. Please accept my apology, bringing an end to these painful hours for both of us. I beg your pardon.
• I repent of my mistakes and howl in pain. Because I’m worried that if you don’t forgive me, my whole life will be in vain.
• I remember you once said that you would do anything for me. All I ask today is that you accept my apology. I made a mistake, but I promise not to let this happen to you again, please forgive me.

SMS apology to the girl for the offense caused

• I'm sorry about what happened. I fully admit that this is only my fault, so I want to do everything to correct my mistake. Because I love you! And the last thing I want to see is you suffering because of me.
• I have never forgotten you, but now I apologize for the harm I did to you. I want to light up your smile again where I turned it off. Allow yourself to restore your heart.
• I really don't want our story to end in a misunderstanding. Therefore, I am ready to compensate for my apologies not only with words, but also to shower you with kisses. Because I love you too much to lose you.
• Life is like a book, where every day is one page, clearly different from the other. Each of us has pages that he would like to tear up and throw away, but this is prohibited! Instead, we can take the pen of the heart and the power of love to begin to write a new chapter together, if you forgive me. (I recommend reading).

• I know that when you hurt the person you love most, there are hardly words that can correct this mistake. That's why I'm not going to apologize just for the words, but I want to apologize for the facts. Little everyday facts, if you give me the opportunity to apologize to you.
• Forgive me for the harm I brought to your heart. I hope you will forgive me and erase from your memory the day when I offended you, even if it is marked with indelible ink. Of course, there is no excuse for my actions, but I will continue to hope for your forgiveness.
• I can't forget you, it's too difficult for me. I should hate myself for the evil I did to you, but I hate even more that I don’t know how to write a beautiful apology to the girl I love in my own words. Sorry to write to you about this, but it's true. Please don't hate me, but understand!!!

An apology to the girl in your own words for rudeness and pain caused

In this part of the article you will find the right words to ask for reconciliation in front of a girl! Among them, undoubtedly, there will be the most suitable phrase that can break the tension that was created by your rudeness and insult to your beloved girl.

• For me, you will forever remain the only person I love. Can you excuse me for being rude to you? Now I realized that my behavior was stupid and unworthy of your good attitude towards me. Despite this, I managed to offend you, for which I apologize.
• I had no intention of hurting you. But it seems that circumstances intended to make you feel that I did it. Please forgive me for hurting you with my rash actions. I really regret this.
• I know that I offended you when I spoke rudely and showered your love with insults. But I will do everything to make amends and bring back your smile. I beg you to just sit down with me, look at me, and listen to my apologies. It seems to me that as soon as you see my repentance, you will forgive me. I apologize to you.

• I feel bad because you're sad. I feel guilty for the pain I caused you, after which you began to doubt me. I'm sorry, please forgive me. (I'm sure you'll like the tips, How can you quickly cheer yourself up? when does sadness make you feel bad?)
• I hurt you with my actions. And you hurt me by not forgiving me. Please, let's start all over again and, first of all, with my apology to you.
• I'm sorry I cursed so much. Unfortunately, I didn’t think that it could cause you such pain and hurt your feelings. Now this mistake is costing me dearly. But I assure you that love for you is all I tried to show from the very beginning.
• I was a little drunk when I said all those nasty words. I'm sorry, but my judgment was completely blurred. I hope you can forgive my senseless outburst. I never wanted to appear before you like this. Please excuse me.

Apologies to my girlfriend

With one of the listed apologies that you will read in this section, you will be able to not only show your feelings, but also succeed in your apology in the best possible way.

• If you can't forgive me, at least give me one last dance. Then you will be able to feel the pain of my heart and the torment of my soul. I want to apologize for what I did. And to assure you that for me you are the only and desired one!
• I am sure that you have never deceived and will never deceive me, but possessiveness got the better of me. Please, my love, forgive me.
• I don't expect the situation to immediately become normal. But until this happens, I will continue to ask my beloved girl for an apology every day, giving her flowers.

• My apology to you feels like suicide - brutally honest and direct in your face. Please forgive me and stop being angry. I miss the real you.
• Please forgive me and I promise that from now on I will no longer consider you as some kind of my property. But that doesn't mean that if another guy tries to make advances or flirt with you, I won't care. Therefore, I will apologize in advance, my love.
• To say that I will never be angry or argue with you again would be a false promise. But I assure you that I will try to do this as little as possible so that you are less sad. Please forgive me by accepting my apology!

Apologies to a guy in your own words

Are you looking for a beautiful phrase that can express your feelings? Are you thinking about apologizing to your beloved boyfriend or man, but have not yet found the right words? Then you don't need to look any further because below you will find samples of such apologies that you can send to your boyfriend.

• Since we started dating, you've done everything I've asked of you. As a final favor, please excuse me so that I can now also begin to fulfill your requests.
• I cried while I still had tears. Then she sobbed until her head began to throb. And then I screamed until my voice disappeared. I was heartbroken because you turned your back on me and we stopped talking. I am very guilty before you. Please accept my apologies.

Apologies to a man in your own words

• To you, so kind, generous, beloved and merciful, I cry out in tears for forgiveness. You and only you can certainly forgive me. Please believe my feelings and how bitterly I regret the circumstances that happened. Darling, please excuse me.
• I'm very sorry for doubting your honesty. I thought you were deceiving me. After all, for me you are hotter than fire and sweeter than honey and this is my problem. Therefore, when I see other girls hovering around you, I start to feel jealous. But now I promise to try to control my jealousy.
• I long to see the smile on your face. I long to be in your arms - that’s my favorite place. I know I did completely wrong things. But please, I beg your forgiveness. Sorry if you can!
• I apologize for my craziness the other day. I swear that I didn’t behave this way on purpose, my hormonal changes and mood swings were to blame. Because of them, I annoyed you in every possible way. But I promise that I will fight this because I don’t want to lose you.

• Take me back into your arms, holding me tightly to you. Feel my heavy breathing with sadness for having offended you. Look into my eyes, hearing the apology, and hug me with a kiss. Forgive me my love!
• I know that because of my character, I am not the girl you deserve. But I promise you that I will never stop trying to become her. Forgive me and forgive me, please.
• Sorry darling! I long to rest my head on your strong shoulders again. I'm sorry and I really want you to hug me again. I'm sorry and I hope you can love me again. I'm sorry... I just hope you can make me smile again.
• I look ugly when I cry and howl in pain. Now it's in your hands to forgive me and make me look beautiful again. Please, darling, I'm sorry!

Summarize

Look your loved one in the eyes when you apologize before you say beautiful words. Of course, it is difficult to expect a sincere apology from the innocent party if you are apologizing for something unpleasant - a lie, deceit, grief or betrayal. Fixing a broken relationship isn't easy, but don't give up.

Write a letter or SMS, or try to talk in person with the person you intend to apologize to. Open your heart to him, showing sincere regret, which can become the basis for forgiveness. I hope you found in this list beautiful apologies to a girl or guy, a man, that will help you reconcile and improve your relationship.

Date of publication: 04/06/2017

Your good manners can be judged by your ability to ask for forgiveness and accept apologies from other people. These are two sides of the same phenomenon. It is important that you have a balance between forgiving yourself and asking forgiveness from others. Some people forgive easily, but do not know how to apologize. For others, on the contrary, it is easier to apologize yourself than to accept someone else’s apology. So let's learn to find the middle ground and do it right.

Immediately on the shore we will agree that the word “Sorry” is energetically different from the expression “I beg your pardon.” The basis of the first word is “guilt”, the second is “forgive”. The less we talk about wine as such, the less we find ourselves in situations in which we become guilty. Therefore, according to esoteric rules, asking for forgiveness is more correct than apologizing.

Politeness requires saying “I’m sorry” if you accidentally hit or pushed someone or caused inconvenience. The most correct answer is the word “Please”. According to etiquette, the phrases “No problem” or “No need to apologize” are unacceptable.

Sometimes the word “Sorry” is a prelude to leaving the road or office in an institution. We are not considering this interpretation today.

When there are serious reasons for an apology, it can be very difficult psychologically to do so.

There are certain rules on how to properly ask for forgiveness:

1. You must show with all your appearance that you are aware of your wrongdoing and are striving to correct the situation.
2. You need to be sincere so that the injured party feels it and appreciates it.
3. At the same time, you need to look into the eyes, and not to the sides. Otherwise, your apology may seem fake.
4. Just say “I’m sorry, I was wrong (mistaken, etc.).” Don't promise that something like this won't happen again - no one knows what else can happen in life.
5. If your opponent does not believe in your sincerity, your relationship with him may become more tense. But if you know for sure that you were sincere, then everything else will be on the conscience of the one who did not accept your apology.
6. If you don’t know what to say, what words exactly, try to put yourself in the shoes of the offended person. This will help you understand the enormity of your act in his eyes and his picture of the world. After this, finding the right words will be easy.
7. Whether you will be forgiven or not depends on the character of the injured person, his attitude towards you, the depth of the offense and your sincerity. Sometimes it takes more than one day of reflection to forgive from the heart. Don't rush, give the person time.
8. If your offense is colossal, you need to prepare the person for the conversation. Especially if he is dear and close to you. Start this thread via SMS, ask for a meeting. If they don’t forgive you right away, they will appreciate your attempts to make amends.

According to etiquette, it is quite acceptable to supplement the words of apology with a gift. There is nothing reprehensible in this. Although it is possible that your impulse may be perceived as a bribe - it all depends on the person accepting the apology. , can give a woman flowers as a sign of repentance, a girl can give a guy a small gift as a sign of reconciliation.

It is not always appropriate to ask what to do to atone for guilt. It’s better to offer your options and let the injured party choose. This will make it psychologically easier for her.

If they ask you for forgiveness, then you can show your readiness to forgive not even with words, but simply smile back or shake hands.

An apology is an expression of regret that you have done something wrong. An apology is essential to mend your relationship with the person you hurt. If you want to improve your relationship with someone, when apologizing, don't forget three things: regretting your actions, taking responsibility, and restoring the relationship. Although apologizing for a mistake is sometimes not so easy, with simple words you can restore and improve your relationships with other people.

Steps

Part 1

There is no need to defend your innocence. Our view of things can be quite subjective. Two people may view the same situation differently because we perceive and interpret the situation differently. By apologizing, we acknowledge that a person can have an opinion, whether it is similar to yours or not.

• For example, imagine going to the cinema without your life partner. Most likely, he feels loneliness and pain. Instead of trying to prove that you are right, admit that he/she felt lonely and hurt and apologize for it.

1. Use the "I" statement. One of the most common mistakes made when apologizing is using “you” instead of “I.” When you apologize, you must take responsibility for your actions. Of course, if you didn’t do something, you shouldn’t be held accountable for those actions. Pay attention to your actions and do not blame others for their wrongs.

   Don't justify your actions. When explaining why we did this, we all tend to make excuses. However, making excuses often defeats the purpose of an apology because it can make the words sound insincere.

   • Very often, when making excuses, we say that the person misunderstood us. In addition, we may downplay the significance of the situation, for example, by saying that everything is not so bad or that we simply had no other choice.

2. Make excuses correctly. By apologizing, you can say that you didn't mean to hurt the person or hurt their feelings. The person may be pleased to hear that you care about them and that you didn't really mean to hurt them. However, you must be careful that making excuses does not negate responsibility for your wrongdoing.

   Avoid the word "but". An apology that includes the word “but” is almost never perceived as an apology. The word “but” acts as an eraser that erases your apology. The person no longer perceives your words as regret about what you have done, but thinks that you are trying with all your might to justify yourself. When people hear the word "but" they tend to stop listening. From this moment on, it seems to them that further accusations against them follow.

   • For example, don't say, "Sorry, but I was so tired." By this you emphasize that you had a reason to make this mistake and do not at all express regret that you hurt the person.
   • Instead, you can say, "I'm sorry I yelled at you. I know I hurt your feelings. I was tired and that's why I said it, but I'm really sorry about it."

3. Consider the individual characteristics of the other person. Research shows that each person may process your apology differently. In other words, taking into account the individual characteristics of a person, you can determine which words of regret will be most effective for him.

   • For example, some people are very independent and it is very important for them to assert their rights. These people are likely to be receptive to more practical apologies.
   • For people who highly value personal relationships with others, compassion and empathy for their pain will be most important.
   • Some people value social rules and norms highly and see themselves as a member of a larger social group. Such people are likely to be more receptive to an apology that shows that their rights have been violated.
   • Unless you know the person very well, you can include a little bit of everything. Thanks to this, a person will choose what is most important to him.

4. Write your apology on a piece of paper. If you have difficulty formulating the words of your apology, try putting it down on paper. This will help you ensure that you are expressing your apology words in the correct way. Take the time to figure out why you are apologizing and what you will do to avoid repeating the mistake.

   Part 2

   Time and place

   1. Find the right time. Even if you say you regret something, an apology may not be effective if you say it during an argument. For example, if you are still arguing about something, your apology may fall on deaf ears. This is because we find it difficult to listen to others when we are experiencing negative emotions. Wait until you've cooled down and are ready to hear each other.

      Apologize to the person in person. If you apologize in person, it is more likely that your words will be perceived as sincere. Remember that we can also convey information non-verbally, for example through facial expressions and gestures. Whenever possible, ask for forgiveness in person.

      • If you can't ask for forgiveness in person, use the phone. The tone of your voice should show that you are sincere.

   2. Choose a quiet environment for your apology. It is usually a very personal act. If you find a quiet, private place to apologize, you can focus on the other person and not be distracted by anything else.

      • Choose a place where you can relax, make sure you have enough time and don't have to rush.

   3. Make sure you have enough time to talk with the offended party. If you are in a hurry, you are unlikely to be able to resolve the disagreement. You need enough time to explain the reason for your behavior and ask for forgiveness. You will have to admit that you were wrong, explain why it happened, express regret about what happened, and show that you will not do it again in the future.

      • You should also choose a time when you will not be tense or stressed. If you are thinking about something else when you apologize, your attention will not be focused on the words of regret and the offended party will feel it.

   Part 3

   Apology

   1. Be open and try to relax. This type of communication is called "integrative communication" and involves open discussion of issues to achieve mutual understanding. Integrative methods have a positive effect on relationships.

      • For example, if the person brings up the situation again, allow him to finish, no matter how unpleasant it may be for you. Wait before you object. Listen carefully to the person, and try to look at the situation from the other person's point of view, even if you do not agree with him. Don't shout or insult the other person.

   2. Use gestures in moderation. Nonverbal signs are no less important than words. Don't slouch, as this may indicate that you are closed to conversation.

      Express your regret. Empathize with the other person. Tell him that you understand that you hurt this person. Show that you care about this person and his feelings.

   3. Be prepared to take responsibility. Be specific. A specific apology is likely to be received more favorably by the other person because it shows that you understand that your actions hurt the other person.

      • Try to avoid generalizations. You shouldn’t say: “I’m a terrible person”; with such words you do not emphasize that you did something wrong, which led to resentment. Agree, stopping being a terrible person is much more difficult than learning to pay attention to the needs of other people.
      • For example, when apologizing, say specifically how you offended the other person. "I deeply regret that I hurt your feelings yesterday. I feel terrible for hurting you. I will never speak like that again."

   4. State how you will correct the situation. An apology is more likely to be effective if you promise not to do the same thing in the future or do everything you can to correct the situation.

      Be patient. If the person doesn't accept your apology, thank them for listening and leave the door open in case they want to talk about it later. For example, say, "I understand that you are still upset about what happened, but thank you for giving me the opportunity to ask for your forgiveness. If you ever change your mind, please call me." Some people need a little more time to cool down.

      • Please note that even if a person accepted your apology, this does not mean that he has completely forgiven you. It will likely take some time, perhaps even a long time, before you can fully repair your relationship. There is little you can do in this situation. If the person is truly important to you, give them time and space to deal with their feelings. Don't expect this to happen quickly.
      • If possible, always talk one-on-one. This will reduce the risk of other people influencing your decision to forgive. However, if you have offended someone publicly, then apologizing in front of everyone will help make amends.
      • After apologizing, give yourself some time and think about what you could do to improve the situation. Next time you will know how to avoid such a problem.
      • If the person wants to talk to you about how to fix a mistake, that's a good sign. If, for example, you forgot your wife's birthday, celebrate with her on another day in an even bigger way. This doesn't relieve you of responsibility for your next birthday, but it does show that you're making an effort.
      • One apology often leads to another. Perhaps you will admit something else or the other person will decide to apologize to you too. Be willing to forgive.