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What to do with the consecrated willow, where to put the willow from last year? When is it necessary to pick willow on Palm Sunday and bless the willow in church? The tradition of blessing the willow |
Every time before Palm Sunday, Orthodox Christians have a question: what to do with last year’s willow, which they kept all year? And when should you get rid of it? On the eve of the holiday or on the very Palm Sunday?
There is a tradition of decorating large branches with sweets and fruits, as well as colored ribbons. Lighted branches were installed at the head of the house, near crucifixes, near fireplaces and stove hearths, as well as in animal stalls and other places. They can be installed simply in dry places or placed in a vase with water. Branches protect the house from the elements, diseases, and quarrels.
“Many people celebrate holidays and True virtue is always expressed in good deeds, internal good motives are expressed in external signs. One example is the Palm Sunday tradition of coming to services with willow branches. A twig in the hands is a sign that the Lord’s Entry into Jerusalem to suffer freely is as important and touching for us as it was for those who two thousand years ago greeted him with palm branches and shouted “Hosanna!” “And we, like youths, bearing signs of victory, cry out to You, the conqueror of death: Hosanna in the highest, blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord,” is sung in the troparion of the holiday, - that is, “And we, like those children who greeted You with palm branches - symbol of victory - to You, Lord, as the Conqueror of death, we cry “Hosanna”. The Church is generally timeless. During services it is almost impossible to hear anything about sacred events in the past tense, for example, that the Lord entered Jerusalem. You can less often hear that He “ascended into Jerusalem,” but more often than not, He “enters,” and moreover, “today,” now. In the souls of people, the events of the Gospel are experienced in a new way every time. That’s why they bring willows to the temple and stand with them during worship, to show that we also greet the Lord as our King and Messiah. Unfortunately, this wonderful tradition was over time rethought in terms of external rituals. If the liturgical texts placed the entire emphasis on “He who comes in the name of the Lord” - Christ and the people who met Him, then folk tradition The whole meaning of the holiday was reduced to the consecration of the willow. Bringing willow to the temple (or rather, taking it out of the temple), it turns out, is no longer necessary in order to testify to the Lord one’s love, but in order to stock up good amulet. From year to year the same story is repeated: throughout the day, when the festive Liturgy has long ended, many people come into the church with the question: “Where is the willow distributed here?” I don’t feel sorry for the willow, but for some reason it always makes me sad. In books and oral conversations you can find a lot of advice on what to do with willow, where to put it, how many years to store it, even in what cases it is advisable to eat a willow bud. People hope to receive help from the willow, because the willow is consecrated. But if you parse the text of the prayer, it turns out that there is not a single word in it that the willow is sanctified; its meaning comes down to the phrase: “... and us, in imitation of them (i.e., us, in imitation of the people who met the Lord branches), on this pre-festive day, observe and preserve the branches and branches of trees in the hands of those who carry them.” It turns out that, first of all, the Church did not see the willow as the object of sanctification, but the person himself. In the Trebnik - a collection of priestly prayers containing the sequence of Sacraments and rituals - there is not even an instruction to sprinkle the willow with holy water. This instruction is in the Service Book - a book containing the sequences of the Liturgy, Vespers, Matins, but it appeared there later, as a reflection of established practice. Nowadays, few people dare to break the tradition of consecrating the willow, but we have no right to forget the inner meaning of this rite. You cannot focus all your attention only on the external, forgetting about the main thing: where the Lord is going and for what. The willow can (and should) bring blessings, but it is important not so much to expect a miracle from it, but to think about what the Lord expects from us. Let these thoughts come to us more often when our gaze falls on a branch of a dried willow. The prayer for the blessing of willow trees in the church is called the prayer for the blessing of fronds (palm branches)Text of the prayer in Church Slavonic: Text of the prayer in modern Russian: Feast of the Entry of the Lord into Jerusalem Christian church introduced in the 4th century, and in Rus' it appeared in the 10th century and began to be called Palm Sunday, since the willow had the same meaning as palm branches. According to the traditions of the holiday on the eve of Palm Sunday, in ancient times, Russian people went to the banks of the river to break willow, and this was a real rite. The willow was always blessed in the church with holy water, however, this tradition has survived to this day. In warm countries, this day is celebrated with palm branches, but in our country at this time of year the leaves on the trees have not yet bloomed. Branches of evergreen conifers have traditionally been used in burial ceremonies, so they cannot be used. According to signs and beliefs, it was believed that the blessed willow had healing properties, so they touched people with branches, wishing them health, placed them at the head of the sick, applied them to sore spots, and whipped children so that they would not get sick during the year and grow up healthy. Crushed dried willow buds were added to various medicinal decoctions, which were used to treat wounds and skin diseases. Sometimes the buds were added to bread and other baked goods, and some baked bread in the shape of a willow twig. Palm porridge was made from the opening buds. But willow not only heals, it gives physical strength, courage and courage, so many young men made themselves amulets and talismans from willow buds. It was believed that if you eat a few willow buds before a long journey or some serious undertaking, then only success will await a person on his path and in his business. Icons were decorated with branches and hung in the corners of rooms, which many still do to this day. Also, amulets made from willow buds were worn by women who did not have children. According to legend, you had to eat ten kidneys five days after the end of your period, this was supposed to help in conceiving a child. To ensure that the offspring were healthy, a willow twig was placed under the feather bed, and the newlyweds were showered with buds. Our ancestors believed that willow could impart sexual power not only to humans, but also to livestock. That is why domestic animals were lashed with a blessed willow branch, branches were hung in barns, and before the first pasture in the field, these branches were fed to the animals so that they would not be poisoned by poisonous herbs, or become victims of diseases, thieves and predatory animals. Not a single day goes by without weather-related signs. And Palm Sunday is no exception. If it rains on Palm Sunday, expect a good harvest. This sign is based on many years of observations of our ancestors. They noticed that if it rains on a given day, the harvest will be simply wonderful. If, on the contrary, the weather is dry, then you may not expect a harvest. And, if the sky is cloudy, cloudy, but there is no rain, then the harvest will be quite good, but not as much as we would like. It was also believed that the willow could protect the house from natural elements. A house in which there is a consecrated willow branch will not be struck by lightning. If during a fire you throw a willow into the fire, it will go out faster and the flame will not spread to another building. And twigs thrown into the water during ice drift will help avoid large floods. If to next holiday On Palm Sunday, there were unused branches left in the house; under no circumstances should they be thrown away. They must be burned and thrown into a stream or river, and the water should not be stagnant. When choosing new branches, they gave preference to young trees growing near rivers. It was forbidden to take branches from trees growing near the cemetery, or on which there were nests and hollows. Many people, believers and not, even today, on the eve of Palm Sunday, decorate their home with willow branches, because this plant gives joy and awakens spring in the heart. Signs for Palm Sunday Tap your body with a willow twig- there will be health whole year. Perhaps this is the only sign that people know about today. First, a willow twig is blessed on this day in the church, and after that the twig is tapped on the body and the sentence is said: “Be as strong as the willow, as healthy as its roots and as rich as the earth.” This preference is given to the willow because it is, perhaps, the most tenacious tree that exists in nature. It is believed that even if a willow stick is stuck into the ground upside down, it will still take root and grow. It is for this reason that willow can give health to a person, because it itself is very strong. Eat a willow bud- an important matter will be decided. It was customary to keep consecrated willow branches for a whole year near the icon. If you have to go to important negotiations, or you are about to start a very important business for you, and you are not sure of the result, then willow will help you here too. But only the willow that was consecrated in the church on Palm Sunday will help. When going on an important task, you need to tear off three buds from a branch and eat them, washing them down with holy water, while thinking about your business. True, this property of a twig can only be used as a last resort. Constantly, don’t, it’s better not to disturb the willow, it can go sideways. On Palm Sunday, think about your loved one., he will come. Superstition? More likely. But before, a young girl, if she liked some guy and he didn’t pay any attention to her, would wait for this very day. Starting in the morning, she began to think about who was dear to her heart. Her thoughts were somehow incomprehensibly transmitted to this guy. And in the evening he came to her to invite her for a walk. In principle, it has long been proven that human thought is material. Everything we think about inevitably happens sooner or later. real life. Perhaps Palm Sunday has such an energy that allows us to bring our thoughts to life much faster than on any other day. Plant a houseplant for Palm Sunday- you will be rich. It used to be believed that if you plant on this day indoor flower, then he will attract money into your life. In the cities, of course, they kept houseplants, but in the villages there was no time for that. But those who knew about this sign and planted indoor plants quickly got back on their feet. But this sign has several features that few people know about. Firstly, if the flower withers within a month, then you will have to live your whole life in poverty. And secondly, you only need to plant plants with large and fleshy leaves. By the way, one of these plants is now called the money tree. In order for it not to wither and grow well, you need to know the special rules for planting and caring for it. By the way, it was noticed that in the house where Money Tree It grows well, there is always prosperity and there is no shortage of money. Poultry is not allowed outside- the witch will ruin it. Perhaps earlier they were confident in this sign, but not now. It was believed that a week before Great Easter the witches began to go on a rampage. After all, starting from Easter and all the holidays, their power temporarily decreased. So they tried to cause mischief, so to speak, for the future. It was believed that it was on poultry that witches took revenge. But it’s not known whether to believe this sign or not. But in villages to this day, those who keep the bird try not to let it out into the street on Palm Sunday. There are holidays that we have heard about and know about, but we do not know about the signs associated with this day. We don't worry too much because we don't know what customs to follow. But when troubles happen in our lives, problems appear, then we begin to think where all this comes from, and why all this is on our heads. Beliefs on Palm Sunday Headaches are spoken of on Palm Sunday. On Palm Sunday they cast a love spell on a willow tree. Remember that the branches from Palm Sunday must be preserved. It is believed that on Palm Sunday it is customary to hit the back of the person you wish good health with a willow. They consecrate the willow. And then they keep it in the house all year in a vase or behind icons. Buds, fluffy leaves from holy willow Today you can bake holy willow fluffs into bread To everyone who helps their loved ones with castings Rituals. Willow and its strength Willow is still a significant plant in the folk Orthodox culture of Russians. It gave the name “Palm Sunday” to the church’s twelfth feast of the Entry of the Lord into Jerusalem, celebrated on the last Sunday before Easter. According to the Gospel, Jesus Christ went with his disciples from Bethany, where he raised Lazarus, to Jerusalem to celebrate Easter there. On the way to the city, Christ saw a donkey tied to a tree, on which he rode into the city. The inhabitants of Jerusalem, having learned about the miracle of the resurrection of Lazarus, enthusiastically greeted the Savior with palm branches called “vaii” and a song of praise. On the road along which Jesus was traveling, people threw palm branches and spread out their clothes. In memory of this event in Christian churches On the day of the holiday, it is customary to consecrate decorated tree branches. Among the Russians, the place of the palm branch was taken by the willow, and the week before the holiday began to be called “Verbna”, “Verbnitsa”. Ideas about the unusual properties of willow, however, go back to pre-Christian, pagan times. This plant, like birch, in folk culture associated with the idea of rapid growth, health, vitality, fertility. These ideas are based on the fact that willow blooms its buds earlier than other plants. A blossoming tree symbolized the coming spring and, according to mythological consciousness, could convey health, strength and beauty to humans and domestic animals. Willow was quite widely used in calendar rituals of Russian peasants. Despite the fact that Palm Sunday was church holiday On this day, numerous rituals with willow were performed, based on archaic beliefs. It was customary to go to the forest to pick willows before sunrise on Lazarus Saturday, on the eve of Palm Sunday. The brought branches were often immediately decorated with paper flowers and ribbons, but sometimes this was done only after their consecration or on the eve of Easter. They went to church to bless the willow on the same day for the evening service or on Sunday morning. The consecrated branches were placed in the front corner of the shrine or placed behind the icons, where they were kept until St. Yegoryev's day or all year. In Siberia, a “teremok” was made of straw for the willow tree, decorated with rags, ribbons and hung in front of the icon. Upon arrival home after the consecration of the willow, and sometimes right next to the church, each member of the household, and most often children, was hit with it, as it was believed, “for health.” At the same time they said: “The willow is red, hit until you cry, be healthy!”, or: “I don’t hit - the willow hits, the willow hits until you cry.” In many areas, for the same purpose, cattle were whipped with willow or given a twig or buds of the plant to eat. In the Central Russian zone, in order for sheep to be “fed”, they were fed with a special loaf or bread in which willow buds were baked. In some places, the shape of kidneys was given to ritual cookies, which on Lazarus Saturday were brought to church for blessing along with willow cookies. In the Kostroma province it was called “lamb”, in Moscow - “lamb”, “granny” or “akatushki”, in Ryazan - “nuts”, “kytka”. Cookies were baked according to the number of livestock and poultry, and in some local traditions - for all household members. In the Ryazan region, when feeding sheep with cookies on Palm Sunday, it was believed that they would each bring a pair of lambs, and the holiday itself was called “lamb holiday.” The Russians everywhere placed and still place blessed branches in the red corner next to the icons. Previously, willow was stored until St. Yegoriev's day or all year. Throwing it away after whipping cattle was considered a sin. Usually these branches were stuck in the barn under the roof, “so that the cattle would not wander,” or thrown into the river, “let them float on the water”; sometimes they burned it in a furnace. Belarusians kept willow all year behind icons until the new Holy Monday. On the same day they burned it and placed a new consecrated willow near the images. When going to new house Some of the willow branches were left in the old house, and half were transferred to the new one. On Yegoryev Day, in many localities, each cattle was hit with a willow during the ritual of the first pasture for grazing, and after pasture they fed it, believing that these actions would ensure a good offspring and protect them from wild animals throughout the grazing season. They did the same on the day of St. Nicholas the Great: on this day, and especially when driving the horses out at night, the first of the season, they were lashed with willow branches. As can be understood from the examples given, willow in popular consciousness magical functions were attributed. Willow branches blessed on Palm Sunday were endowed with special powers. The productive properties of the plant are obvious from the magically significant sentences that were pronounced when children were whipped with willow: “Grow like a willow!”, “As the willow grows, so do you grow!” In some areas, barren women ate the buds of the blessed willow in the hope that it would help them give birth to a child. The beekeepers stuck willow branches around the apiary so that the bees would swarm well and more would be born bee families, and they would bring the owner honey and wax in abundance. In the Penza province there was a ritual of calling out to young women, in which it is obvious that the willow positive value. At midnight on the eve of Palm Sunday, young people went around the houses where the newlyweds lived and shouted near the gate: The productive power of the willow was also used directly in agricultural rituals. So, after the first pasture of livestock, the twigs could be broken and scattered across the field, and the buds could be crushed into grain intended for sowing. In the Smolensk region, part of the willow brought after cattle pasture was stuck into the ground in a grain field - “so that the earth would come to life faster”, “so that the rye would grow well and grow fluffy, like a willow”; the other part was hidden behind the icon - “so that the cattle would return home.” Here the housewife threw the rod, which she used to drive out the cattle, into the manure in the barn; at the same time, she jumped as high as possible “so that flax would be born.” In some places, willow branches were stuck in the four corners of the field to protect the crops. In the Tambov province, willow was generally planted in the field for this purpose. In Belarus, with the consecrated willow they went out for the first plowing of the spring field and to plow up the virgin lands. In Kuban, willow was used in the treatment of childhood diseases. To do this, early in the morning, before sunrise, they went to the river and there they cut the willow three times, nine branches each. At the same time, they counted from nine to one three times. Arriving home, they dipped one bunch of nine branches into hot water and bathed the child near the window from which the sunrise could be seen. At noon, they put a second bunch of willow in hot water and bathed the child near the window, opposite which the sun stood at that moment. In the evening, when the sun was setting, the same actions were performed with the last bunch of branches in front of the window looking west. At the end, all the willow branches with water were taken to the river and poured out with prayer so that they would float on the water. It was believed that the disease would recede. In the Vitebsk region, sick cattle were fumigated with willow, they ground it into powder and covered wounds with it, they made a decoction from it and drank it for various diseases, and also used it as a lotion for tumors and bruises. Willow in folk culture was attributed protective qualities. Everyone has Eastern Slavs There were widespread ideas that a consecrated branch could protect from thunderstorms, storms, and other natural Disasters, from evil spirits and diseases. The Russians in the Tambov province believed that a willow thrown against the wind could drive away a storm, and thrown into a fire could pacify it. People everywhere believed that the willow stored in the red corner would protect the house and the entire household from thunder and lightning. During hail, Belarusians placed a bunch of consecrated willow on the windowsill to pacify the elements and avoid hail in the grain fields. Along with the fact that willow is widely used in the ritual sphere and is an attribute of one of the largest Christian holidays, in folk beliefs it belongs to the trees cursed by God. According to legend, Christ’s tormentors made pins from it to hold the cross together. For this, willow, according to popular belief, is subject to turning by worms, and devils sit in dry willow. In this regard, the famous Ukrainian proverb is indicative: “I fell in love like the devil with a dry willow.” According to the beliefs of Belarusians, the devil sits on a willow, especially an old one - dry and hollow, from Epiphany to Palm Sunday. In the spring, the devils warm themselves on the willow tree, and after it is blessed on the holiday, they fall into the water, and therefore from Palm Sunday until Easter you cannot drink water drawn under the willow tree. 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I believe that no matter where we give birth, we alone are responsible for our children. Doctors and midwives can only help. The choice is ours! Our daughter Sofa was born at home, on April 26, 2004, weight 3500, height 55 cm. 5/9 according to Apgar Tatyana, Stanislav and Sofia Manerov.... Discussion Well done, you have made the best decision for you - to give birth at home. We also gave birth to our second child at home. The first is in the maternity hospital. There is something to compare with, not in favor of the maternity hospital. Our second child was larger (almost 4 kg and 53 cm) compared to the first (3,500 kg and 50 cm). They did everything they could to interfere with the natural course of childbirth. They started by puncturing the bladder without even telling me what they were going to do. When I walked through the corridors of the maternity hospital for only 4 hours with quite tolerable contractions, the doctor decided to inject oxytocin to speed up labor, which in turn led to an epidural (this was already at my request, because the dose of oxytocin was a horse). As a result, when it was time to push, I only made a few attempts before the doctor, again without warning, stabbed me with a knife. Here you have an unnecessary episiotomy with subsequent leaks. The placenta was pulled out by the umbilical cord, and thank God that everything healed well (two of my friends had serious complications after such a procedure). When giving birth at home, I managed to avoid this whole bunch of unnecessary actions. I gave birth without even the slightest crack, despite the fact that the child was larger. It is quite possible that if another doctor had attended the birth, much would have been different. But “thanks” to our first sad experience, we began to look for an alternative to giving birth in a maternity hospital. Giving birth at home is natural. The presence of a qualified midwife was important to us. Besides her, there were 2 more of her assistants, and besides this, there was an agreement with the doctor if the birth was delayed or something went wrong. 10/23/2009 03:20:45, fortunikaSix months have passed. Our child died during birth at home. The birth lasted more than three days. I still gave birth to him myself, already dead. According to the forensic examination, the child died two days before birth, which means one day after the onset of labor. Midwife Irina Dmitrieva spent these three days with us lying on the sofa, believing that there was no reason to worry. We completely trusted her, because she was recommended to us by the couples who gave birth to her, because she delivered “500 births, and then stopped counting,” because she herself has six children, she gave birth to five herself at home, including twins." This is our first child , my husband and I were preparing for pregnancy, went to courses, separately listened to lectures by this midwife; I scoured the entire Internet, I have a lot of literature on the topic of pregnancy and childbirth. But our child died during childbirth. I wanted to write to everyone thinking about giving birth at home right away, then I re-read everything on the site again - well, what to write about - everything has already been written. Six months have passed - there is no child... it was a girl... I am writing, but my hands are shaking - but I thought that everything was already in the past. In general, not I will describe how the birth proceeded, this is not what will help readers, but the conclusions: 1. before giving birth, imagine possible consequences, if something goes wrong, no one knows how it will go; 2. needed under the window ambulance with equipment for resuscitation of a child - it will not be useful, thank God; 3. don’t turn off your consciousness by talking “you need to think about the good and nothing bad will happen” - I tried very hard to think about the good for three days, and if I had gone to the hospital 12 hours after I started, now I would be sitting with a child in my arms; 4 think carefully about why you are running away, refusing the maternity hospital - and then in Moscow you will definitely find a maternity hospital in which everything will be as close as possible to what you want - you can be with your husband, you can have a baby at your breast, and you can not be separated from him, I don’t know what is not allowed in our time! 5. Doctors simply play it safe when they inject stimulants, when they puncture a bladder, when they perform a caesarean section - but you want them not to play it safe? Probably our midwife has her own explanations about what happened; I don’t have the strength to communicate with her. But no matter what her explanations are, this does not change the matter - there is no child. It turns out that this is not the first or second case for Irina Dmitrieva. When we, sitting in shock, asked her what we should do now, she said “well, one of my dads went and buried a child in the forest,” well, what can you say... I want to warn expectant mothers from what happened to us. From such home births... Or at least from childbirth with Irina Dmitrieva. Saint Valentine, the shepherd and confessor of warriors, secretly blessed loving hearts and, despite the ban, sanctified the relationship with a church rite. The disobedient priest was extradited. He was executed on February 14. Since then, this day has been celebrated as Valentine's Day. An indispensable attribute of Valentine's Day celebrations is a valentine - a message sent to a loved one. One of the first Valentine cards was a card sent in 1415 by Charles, Duke... Thank you for raising the question, although I will also be enlightened on this matter! Snusmumrik I can only answer about the dress - after the font. mammik Look at Orthodox websites - the whole sacrament is described there in great detail and you can even ask a priest a question. It also describes how to behave godparents. They put on a new white shirt or dress after dipping into the font three times, after which they put on a cross; if you buy a cross not in a church, then you need to consecrate it in advance. You also need a white towel when you receive your baby after the bath. They also tell godparents that it is advisable to fast for at least three days before the sacrament. Don’t forget that mothers are not allowed to attend the sacrament, only at the very end, but you can take a video in many churches, they are allowed for a small surcharge, and even after the sacrament they issue a certificate... On the eve of adoption, I repented, I asked God for advice. The husband repented immediately after blessing his son. At that time (five months from birth), the child, still very nervous, loud, and afraid of people, behaved quietly during the blessing (the believers asked the Lord to bless the baby), and calmly accepted congratulations. No conveyor belt. In general, in the prayer house of the Evangelists the atmosphere is peaceful, a bright spacious room without icons, beautiful chants, prayers in simple accessible language, the children do not behave under pressure during the service - they walk around the hall, sit down, sing, and no one shushes them or “pressures”. I am not ready for my baptism. There is a temptation to baptize your adopted son, becoming his godmother (they say “the godmother’s prayer will atone for all sins and raise him from the bottom of the sea”), for example... Discussion I completely agree with you, Natalya, and I admire your action. That's how it should be! Although it is very difficult, and most of us go completely into the depths of our grief, there is really only one way out of it - to try to help the other person. Not being religious, I am sure that God wants exactly this from us - so that we never give up, do not become embittered and return to happiness through love, and not through leaving the world for a monastery, etc. Otherwise, why did he give us this world? ? “Do not allow the patient to view life’s affairs as material for obedience to the Enemy. If you have made peace the goal and faith the means, the person is almost in your hands and it makes absolutely no difference what goal he pursues. If only rallies, brochures, How to behave correctly when visiting houses of worship of various religious denominations? General etiquette standards and main differences. Please tell me whether embroidered icons are blessed, is it even possible to do this? In the near future I plan to finish Stoyankin’s small model of the Madonna and Child, and I’m wondering if it’s possible to try to consecrate it? I finally embroidered the icon of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker. Now I don’t know - how to arrange it? Just in a frame? Or maybe someone designs icons differently? And then they would take it to church and consecrate it for Easter. Did someone go and illuminate their embroidery? How does the Priest react to this? When I'm done, I promise to show it here and start new project- mother with baby. Eat Orthodox holidays, especially loved by the people. This is the day of Jesus Christ's entry into Jerusalem. People threw palm branches at his feet. This is how the most important people were greeted in the East. In our area they usually use willow. But every time a problem arises: where to put these fluffy branches after the holiday? You can't just throw them in the trash. They are consecrated in the church. There are houses behind icons, near crucifixes, near fireplaces and stoves. In pet stalls. Or in vessels with water. Willow protects your entire home from various misfortunes, illnesses, and quarrels. And so on for a whole year. The main thing is not to sinHowever, not everyone knows what to do with willow after Palm Sunday. It is generally accepted that it does not lose its wonderful medicinal properties until the spring of next year. What is the right thing to do? Get rid of last year's branches on the holiday or on the eve of it? And when should the newly cut ones be brought to the consecration? These are not formal questions. People want to do things by the rules. According to the laws of the church. So as not to sin again. So, what to do with willow branches after Palm Sunday? You can collect them all together and put them into a river, lake, stream, or pond. Let them sail in peace. Also, some people prefer to simply burn willow branches that have dried out over the course of a year. However, attention! The ashes must be scattered where they will not be trampled by passing people or animals. It is also not forbidden to pour the ashes into the river. Plant a new treeAre you still concerned about the problem of where to put the willow after Palm Sunday? What do you think of this proposal? The willows were in your vase. Have you changed the water from time to time? And the branches gave roots. The best (and most beautiful!) is to plant it in a clearing in the forest or somewhere near a river. Let it grow, reach for the sun. Makes people happy. And maybe this willow will again be consecrated by people in the church. In general, willows can be stored for several years in a row. However, every spring it is better to celebrate the holiday with fresh twigs. In memory of the departedIn our area there is a tradition that has lived for centuries. If you follow it, then you will never have to wonder what to do with the willow after Palm Sunday. Such a ritual is known. Neighbors and relatives usually know that some person is living last days. And on the day of the funeral, last year’s consecrated willow is placed in his coffin. Others elderly people They themselves accumulate old twigs so that they can be placed in their grave at the funeral. We also recommend this method if you are wondering where to put the willow after Palm Sunday: you need to set its branches on fire and walk around the house with them. At the same time, read a prayer. This is how they cleanse the apartment, the house of everything bad. It’s not a bad idea to bring the spent twigs to the priest at church. There they will slowly burn them, while reading prayers. In the forest, next to othersBut here is also a good kind of solution to the question of what to do with willow branches after Palm Sunday. For those who find it difficult to answer and don’t know what to do, we can offer this option - take the branches into the forest. Place between the bushes of growing, new, fresh willow. If you have a stove in your house, then it is very good to light it with an old and well-dried branch. And then bake the cakes. Many people sweep corners with last year's old willow. And then they throw the twigs into the fire and burn them, first thanking them for their service. By the way, wells were lined with old willow. For what? So that no evil spirits penetrate into the water. It is interesting that it was from Belarus that the tradition came when parents often beat their own children with willow so that they would grow well and be healthy. For the same purpose, both cattle and adults were whipped everywhere. The bee hives were beaten three times. And then they went to their gardens or fields. There they beat the ground three times with branches. They also stuck branches into the ground. Finally, they went to beat and whip the graves of their loved ones. Wonderful propertiesWhat kind of service did these modest forest beauties perform after they were blessed by the priest? Traditionally, the first ritual after returning from church is this: all relatives and household members are lightly beaten (or patted) with a blessed willow, for their own health. The same is done with domestic animals. After all, what to do with the willow after Palm Sunday is a settled question. Nothing. Let him be in the house. Everyone must absorb this wonderful power of renewal. The juices of spring and the rebirth of nature. Another property is that the willow perfectly protects the house from evil, negative spirits, and any evil spirits. The bride or groom has grown up in the house. What are they doing with our willow? She is urgently planted in the garden. As soon as the sprout takes root, it means there will be a wedding soon. Willow is also used to drive animals to the fields on St. George's Day. It was believed that with such “treatment” she would be healthy and begin to gain weight well and reproduce. And here is another option for what to do with willow after Palm Sunday. Childless girls and women were advised to flavor their food with willow buds, which were blessed in the church. It helps. They also said to use them as a preventive measure against various diseases. When they bathe sick children, they must also throw the willow into the water. Her kidneys were put in bread for the cattle and in porridge for the whole large rural family. Against thunder, thunderstormsPeople strongly believed that a consecrated willow would stop a thunderstorm and deliver from hail and thunder. You just need to wave a twig towards the clouds. During fires, willow was thrown into the fire. For what? To reduce its destructive power. Any coward who dreams of becoming one had to, coming home from church on Palm Sunday, drive a small stake into the wall - from a consecrated willow tree. Of course, this did not instantly turn an over-cautious person into a hero. But in any case, this removes his natural timidity from his soul. Not only did people attribute powerful healing powers to the leaves and the entire branch, but also to its earrings. They were eaten at once, nine at a time. For fever - the surest panacea. And those who caught a cold or fell ill with some kind of illness swallowed willow buds. And this saved them from bad fever, severe sore throat, and chronic infertility. The consecrated willow served people so faithfully. Now about the timing. When exactly to free yourself from the old willow tree? Here choose what suits you best. You can take, say, willow branches into the forest directly on the holiday itself. This is also allowed on Palm Sunday. Or right after that big day. Fortunately, we offered many options for this. We hope that next Palm Sunday you will already know very well what to do with willow. |
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