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The son of Diana Gurtskaya voiced the harsh demands of his parents. Diana Gurtskaya: biography, personal life, family, husband, children - photo Diana Gurtskaya family |
She never appears in public without dark glasses. But they are for a 35 year old Diana Gurtskaya- not just an accessory. The singer carefully hides her eyes behind dark glasses. Why? Diana herself does not like to talk about this. “Dark glasses are part of my life,” she simply states. “It was a shock when I found out the truth about myself”But now the secret that these glasses hid for 19 years has been revealed! The secret was revealed by a random camera flash. Journalists met Diana Gurtskaya at a fashion show. At some point the light turned out to be so bright that through the dark glasses the eyes of the star became visible: large, with long eyelashes and... so sad! True, the gaze turned out to be very unfocused. So it’s immediately clear that these are the eyes of a blind person. “I haven’t been able to see since birth,” says Diana Gurtskaya. “Although, if I could get back the color sense that I had before my mother’s death, I wouldn’t have asked for more... My parents didn’t immediately understand the problem. For the first month we didn’t notice anything. But then my mother was embarrassed that I did not react to her movements. She told dad. And the parents decided to show their daughter to the doctors. It turned out that the girl was blind. “Of course, mom and dad were very worried,” Diana sighs. “They took me to the best ophthalmologists. But they, all as one, repeated: “She won’t be able to see!” At the same time, the child himself did not even suspect about his illness. “My parents didn’t dare talk to me about this for a long time,” the artist recalls. “That’s why I thought that everyone lived in the same darkness that surrounded me.” I grew up like all ordinary children: I ran, played, played pranks, fell, of course, broke my elbows and knees. But my mother’s kisses relieved any pain. However, with age, questions began to arise. “Friends were talking about some colors, and it seemed to me that they had the same perception as me,” Diana continues. — When I turned six years old, all my peers began to prepare for school. I really wanted to go there too. But on September 1st I stayed at home. I didn't understand why. And she pestered my mother with questions. In the end, the woman had to tell her that her daughter was not like everyone else. “Of course, it was a shock when I found out the whole truth about myself,” Gurtskaya sighs. “But my life, in essence, has not changed. Everything was as before. At the age of seven, Diana went to Tbilisi to study at a boarding school for blind children. The girl managed to finish music school, learning notes by ear. And in 1995, 17-year-old Diana Gurtskaya became a laureate of the “Yalta - Moscow - Transit” competition, where she was noticed famous composer and singer Igor Nikolaev. It was he who helped the girl get on the big stage. The young singer in dark glasses with an unusually beautiful voice that penetrates the heart immediately fell in love with the audience. People wanted to help the “poor blind girl” so much! One man even offered to give her his... eyes. Of course, Diana refused. Medicine is not yet capable of such a transplant. But Gurtskaya nevertheless made an attempt to see the world in colors. In 2003, during a tour in Ufa, ophthalmologist Ernst Muldashev persuaded her to come to his center. He gave Gurtskaya great hope. He said that the nerve is alive, which means Diana will be able to see! The singer was operated on at the clinic. Left and right, Muldashev gave interviews about how the star’s vision was about to return. But the miracle did not happen, although the doctor did a great job of PR. Gurtskaya more than a year I was recovering from anesthesia, was endlessly sick and lost 15 kilograms! What if the baby also lives in darkness?Alas, Diana remained blind. But this did not stop her from finding her female happiness. In 2005, the star married lawyer Pyotr Kucherenko. And a year later she became pregnant. - It was such bliss! - Diana recalls. In fact, she was very worried about the eyes of her unborn child. What if the baby also lives in darkness? Therefore, the first thing, as soon as the boy was born, Gurtskaya asked the doctors if everything was okay with his vision? Fortunately, everything is fine. Kostya is already six years old. He is my mother's main assistant. And one of the few who sees her without glasses. - My mommy is very good! - he says. We know. And Diana is in vain embarrassed to show her eyes. After all, she has them - amazingly beautiful! Based on materials from: taini-zvezd.ru |
The singer talks about why she can’t cry, how she’s raising her son, and how her future husband bribed her. Dossierwas born: July 2, 1978 in Sukhumidiscography: “You Are Here” (2000), “You Know, Mom” (2002) Family status: married, son Kostya, 3.5 years old PREFERENCES food: hominy, it’s tasty and low-calorie drink: coffee reading: audiobooks. Favorite – “Theatre” by Maugham, novels by Sheldon, Ulitskaya, Zweig, Pasternak I bet you didn't know that... The singer's surname is not declined. Her brother's name is Robert Gurtskaya. – Diana, when you became a singer, they said that the secret of your success was the pity of the audience. Now you have ventured out onto the dance floor. Is this another attempt to prove something to yourself and others? “My audience has long been convinced that I don’t need pity.” I have been doing what I love for many years, got married, and am raising a child. What do I have to prove to myself? I was driven primarily by interest. I've been on stage for 15 years, but I've never danced! It didn't even occur to me. And now I look at myself and am surprised - Diana Gurtskaya dancing. Funny! Although I'm doing pretty well. – Did your husband support you? - Absolutely. He is wise and rejoices at all my achievements. But he had questions: “Can you? How will it be? Of course, I was nervous, but I was convinced that I could do it here too. I don’t allow him at rehearsals. Let him see the worked version, why show the wrong side? And I don’t want to be distracted by rehearsals. I don’t even pick up the phone unless they call about a child. – Did your son see his mother dancing? - On TV. And he liked it. If there weren't a flu epidemic now, I would take it with me. – Do you expect to win? – My victory is already in the fact that I came out on the floor. I am grateful to the jury for the fact that they generally evaluate me as a dancing person. I'm not a little girl and I won't be offended if I have to leave. If this were a music competition, I would know what I was fighting for. And in dancing I take my first steps. Husband and son– When was the last time you went on tour?– During the “Dancing with the Stars” project, I refused to go on tour. But I try not to have long absences - a day or two, no more. My son is 3.5 years old, I think that he really needs me now. I'm a crazy mom. I call several times a day if I am not at home. Yes, there is a nanny. But no one will do better for a child than a mother. I don’t like leaving Kostya in anyone’s care, and even if I go somewhere, I know exactly how much he ate, slept or not. My sister lives with us, and our grandparents come. But everything that concerns the child goes through me: what to feed, what medicine to give. The nanny never communicates with doctors! – Are you a supporter of strict education? - I'm different. In some ways I’ll give you some slack, in others I won’t. But since the birth of my son, I’ve been trying to stick to the regime. – Are you going to send Kostya to kindergarten? – I’m not sure yet, but it needs to be done before school. I'm already thinking about his education. I'll probably choose the center early development so that Kostya gets used to being busy. If a child learns to work, it will be easier for him both at school and in life. Soon we will send him to dance, music, and sports. I’m not going to break my son, force him to study music, because I’m a musician myself. We will listen to the child's wishes. But I want him to grow up versatile. My husband likes boxing, but I am against my son taking up this sport. There is so much aggression in life. – Are you still working with your son? - Of course, we look at books, read fairy tales, learn rhymes. If you want, you can handle everything. I remember which page what is written on and tell him. Nowadays there are a lot of music books: where the dog barks, where the cat meows - it’s convenient. We watch cartoons together, play ball, even if I don’t always catch it. The son should not be disadvantaged because his mother does not see. The time will come, Kostya will understand everything. – I know that your husband was present at the birth. Did you help with the baby at first? After all, this is a difficult period for any mother... – I won’t say that it was difficult. Vain - yes. This always happens when everyone tries to help. Advice came from all sides. But we survived it. But what is it postpartum depression, I never understood. How can you talk about this if a little man, a piece of you, is born! It was a great happiness for me when Kostya snored next to me, when I felt his breath. It's so great when our hearts beat in unison. Nothing could be better! - Is your son asking for a brother or sister? “I recently saw myself on DVD during my discharge from the maternity hospital and said: “I want a little one like him, I’ll give him tea.” I ask: “Son, did your dad, by any chance, persuade you?” – Are you ready for such changes? - As God willing. I will never give up a child. What would I do without my brother? I wouldn't achieve anything. Robert, a financier, quit his prestigious job, dedicated his life to me, and became my producer. My brother was the only one who believed that my dream of singing on stage would come true. A suitcase with the smell of home– Did your brother protect you since childhood?“I was the youngest in the family, and everyone loved me very much. Grew up an ordinary child– she also ran, fell, and played pranks. I was punished for my pranks. As a child, I never thought that I had a problem. We never had tears at home, my parents never discussed mine. tragic fate. Although, of course, we were worried and took us to doctors. But they didn’t make fun of me; on the contrary, I always heard from my parents: “You’re just like everyone else!” – In the film “Ray,” the mother of the future blind musician showed toughness in order to teach him independence. How was it for you? - Mom - never. We had a very close relationship. Dad used to show firmness. But I realized its necessity later. At the age of 7, I was sent to a boarding school 500 kilometers from home. It took me a long time to get used to it and I was terribly homesick. I woke up because I was dreaming about my mother. I cried. When melancholy came over me, I opened the suitcase with my things to catch the smell of home. But when she came for the holidays and asked to stay at home for an extra day, dad was adamant. I thought: “Doesn’t he really love me?” Self-flagellation began - that’s how unhappy I am. And then my mother took my father’s side: “You must get an education. Walk through life with your head held high!” I still don’t like it when people feel sorry for me. I could only relax with my mother. But she is no longer there. Now, when it hurts, I close my teeth and don’t show my suffering to anyone. But they pass quickly. I am a cheerful person... – Did you fall in love for the first time at boarding school? - Oh, what are you talking about! Although there were no parents nearby or special control, I was always afraid of upsetting my mother by doing the wrong thing. That's why I didn't even think about love. Maybe I was too strict with the fans. I liked making friends and caring. I still, if someone is feeling bad, try to help. Date with a book– You met your future husband when you were already a famous singer. Did you immediately believe in the sincerity of his feelings?“There were doubts, but not because I saw his dishonesty. I'm careful with people - I've had disappointments on a personal level. But Peter acted wisely - he quietly, slowly entered my life, without pressure. At first I didn’t even think that anything would work out between us. We were so different - he is a serious person, I am a chatterbox and laugher. I was embarrassed by him. At first we even called each other nicknames. Petya won me over with his erudition. We discussed books. True, for the first time he chose an unsuccessful option - “The Blind Musician” by Korolenko. Petya read with expression, and I listened, gritting my teeth. The book touched me, but in front of a stranger I did not allow myself to cry. I liked Petya’s courage when he suggested going to the movies! He didn't seem to notice my problem. Then there were telephone conversations that became longer and longer, flowers, signs of attention, a huge cake for Valentine’s Day with the inscription “From everyone who is in love with you.” And then Peter declared his love. – Did you have any doubts - he is sighted, you are not, whether your life together will be happy? “I immediately warned him: life with a blind person is different. This is not easy for someone who has not encountered such a problem before. And there was also a huge “but”... I understand perfectly well that every mother wants the best for her child. But Petya replied that he was happy that he could live his life with me. And his parents feel good when he feels good. – Was his hope not disappointed? - No. But I am especially grateful to Petya’s parents. They accepted me for who I am. I have a good relationship with his mother and sisters. His relatives often come to visit us. I love setting the table and welcoming guests. - Do you cook yourself? – I have an amazing assistant. But I do not absolve myself of responsibility. All household chores go through me. I love having food in the house. Even if a person knocks in the middle of the night, there will be something to feed. My mom did this. Our guests were always welcomed with open arms. Although I'm not a foodie. I am not fanatical about food. The main thing for me is satiety. – Diana, you and Peter have been together for five years. The first fascination with each other passed. Are there quarrels? - Certainly. I don’t believe there are families that don’t have them. But I believe that the wisdom of a woman and the constancy of a man are components happy family. And also mutual understanding and respect. – Who is the first to make reconciliation? - I am a proud bird. I like it when people approach me. Although I melt quickly in my soul, I don’t show it right away. – You and Peter have such different areas of activity. He is a lawyer, political strategist, you are a singer. Do you share your problems with each other? - Certainly. Although there is not enough time for each other. Sometimes I come home late at night, my husband is already asleep. But we have a ritual - in the morning we drink coffee together and discuss business. – Your relationship began with going to the movies together. Are you able to go out somewhere together now? - No time. I have the CDs lying around at home, maybe I'll get around to taking a look. I get very tired. And if there is time, better for the child I'll spare him. I am Cancer according to the horoscope, a home person. If it weren't for work, I would stay at home. I love every corner of it. – You always look good. Who looks after you and chooses your clothes? – A stylist and fashion designers work with me. And at home I can easily put myself in order myself. I won't have a stylist nearby all the time, will I? I love good cosmetics, massages, body wraps. I can style my hair and put on makeup... “Medicine has come a long way now. Have you tried to restore your vision? – Ophthalmologists never gave me hope. A few years ago I turned to a doctor of alternative medicine. It was such a bad experience that I can only hope he acted out of a desire to help. But I'm not complaining, I move on with my life. And if someday I am given the opportunity to see the light from above, then so be it... Blitz survey- If it’s a city, then...– Sukhumi, where I spent my childhood. I miss the smell of the sea and flowers, the sound of the waves. Tbilisi, where I studied for 11 years. Here I experienced a lot and formed as a person. Moscow, where I live and work now. - If it’s the time of year, then... – Moscow spring, at this time I try not to go anywhere. - If flowers, then... – Violets, the harbingers of spring, they are so shy, especially after the rain. - If it’s rest, then... - Sea. Water calms me down and brings me to my senses. I definitely read at sea. This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it. Photo by Dmitry DROZDOV, RIA Novosti, from personal archive | Diana Gurtskaya knows firsthand how to live in a world without colors. But with her creativity she enriched music world millions of shades. And thanks to the activities of the singer’s charitable foundation, many blind children were able to feel truly happy.
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