Many women around only declare: All men only want sex! He's not interested in me at all." - “I only need him to satisfy! Animal!" - “Men are so primitive that they are not interested in anything in a woman but sex!”. Or maybe just the fair sex do not want to see anything else?

You may be surprised, but there is something what men want even more than sex (with the exception of the age of 15-19 years). Only their severity and pride does not allow to say about it. Today's editorial "So simple!" dispel the main stereotype about men.

What to say to a man

Men absolutely do not want to offend women. Yes, they have a much stronger attraction to the opposite sex, but such is nature. But as has long been known, sex is only 50% of a happy relationship. After all, women want men to understand them, but for some reason they themselves do not want to look beyond the stereotype. And the males are so offended that, perhaps, women will never know the whole truth.

In fact, a man needs tenderness and a sense of peace. He wants to have a completely different personal world with a woman. A light touch of a beloved woman can not only improve your mood, but also relieve melancholy and motivate you to new achievements. But a man is afraid to ask about it, because it is, at first glance, so obvious. And yes, they are afraid to seem weak and soft in the eyes of their beloved.

A man must feel love. We are sure that every man wants to feel it. It's simple - female acceptance and approval. As you know, it is the woman who sets the emotion in the relationship. The second most important place after touch is occupied by words. They can give a man self-confidence that will soon change the world around you.

Men want to be interested. You don’t need to be smart about anything, just ask about how the day went, what was interesting, how this or that circumstance influenced it. But there is one nuance here: you should not arrange a real interrogation about a man’s work affairs, especially if he is an influential person or works in “interesting” services. There are things that a woman should not go into too much, especially if she likes to gossip with her friends.

Men also want to be appreciated for their efforts. Note verbally. Because he can't know what you thought. He is not you. So you need to express your thoughts and admiration. That's about what a man wants to hear.

1. "I'm glad you brought us here, thank you".
2. “You are such a good guy! You work so hard and try for our family.”.
3. So that she touches my shoulder and whispers: “You are such a good father and husband. I love you for it".
4. When I offered her my vacation option, she took my hand and said: "Damn it, I adore you!"
5. When I come home from work, she meets me at the doorstep and says: "Hello! I am so glad to see you". Ideally, if she does it with a smile, and if she also wears beautiful lingerie...
6. So that when I feel bad, she just hugged me and said: "Everything will be fine". No extra words or questions.
7. So that after intimacy she does not start immediately about everyday life, but says: "Wow! Well, you're still the beast!

From the outside it seems that relationships are quite simple: people meet, fall in love and eventually get married. But the inner path can be thorny. Therefore, it is important to know what to say to a man, unless, of course, a woman wants to get married. Let's trace the dynamics of relationships from the first love to the state of maturity in marriage.

Revision of opportunities

Falling in love is a wonderful feeling, it is much sharper, more emotional than mature love. But if a woman needs to seduce a man, then impulses only get in the way. Therefore, at first it is necessary to step on the throat of one's own song and consider oneself strictly and impartially, as if a woman is a general, and her strengths and weaknesses are soldiers. The main question is what to say to a man, but it cannot be answered if you do not take an inventory of your external and internal qualities. Pretty bet on their attractiveness, cute - on charm, smart - on intelligence. There are few frankly unpleasant women, but many unfortunate ones, unfortunately.

Studying the object

So, the girl found out and analyzed her weapons, is that all? Of course not. Now you need to study the object of passion, as if it were not a man, but a military task. To figure out:

• interests;
• hobbies;
• occupation;
• and the way he treats women.

The last point is not what the reader thought (the study is not about orientation), because sometimes you come across bastards who are best avoided, no matter how romantic the dawn of a relationship promises.

The easiest way is to collect information about the first three points, the rest is found out in the process.

Genuine awareness is the key to success

You can stay awake at night and torture yourself with the question: what to say to the man you like? But that's not something worth doing. On the contrary, it is necessary to look good and be in shape. And the truth is always somewhere nearby. You need to talk to a man about himself. But there is one subtlety: real knowledge of the subject is valued.

Naturally, if we look at the portrait of an average man and an average woman, their interests practically do not intersect. He loves cars, fishing and beer, she loves expensive clothes, herself and being photographed in the mirror. But the magic is that none of us are 100% average. So, there are hopes for great and pure love, if you make a little effort.

So, in order to have something to talk about and what to say to a man, you need to delve into the interests of the object, and you should not collect material for a Ph.D. thesis, a superficial acquaintance is enough. Happiness is when there are initially common points, but this rarely happens.

What is the biggest mistake people make? They, as a rule, pull the blanket over themselves, over their personality, their interests. The one who does the opposite will hit the jackpot or achieve the goal, as you like.

Less criticism and more compliments

The positive program is more or less clear. Let's talk about what not to say to a man. Here, too, everything is quite simple. A man, like a woman, loves with his ears. The strong sex likes to be praised by the weak sex. But compliments must be chosen wisely. You can't say something that hurts. Criticism in any form at the stage of establishing a relationship is unacceptable and harmful, even if a woman categorically disagrees with something.

Although when love is strong, even the flaws of the gentleman seem to be some kind of refinement. But we will imagine that the first wave of charm still subsided, and the object became interested in the woman.

Only compliments, one solid nectar pouring from the lips of a woman. The whole secret is that not everyone had a happy childhood, and sometimes parents are too strict with their children, including mothers. And if a girl makes a young man feel that he is her hero, then the conqueror will turn into a victim and surrender without firing a shot. Criticism will return him to childhood, where he was always not good enough. What do men want to hear? Only inspiring!

The reader may say that this case is not an axiom. Right. But we are not talking about severe cases here. Parents tend to be unhappy with their children, right? Few people are proud of their offspring, but a woman can use this for her own purposes. In the end, even if a person did not have a difficult childhood, then compliments will not hurt him, while criticism is synonymous with failure and dead end. Now it’s clear what you can’t say to a man?

Comparisons only make matters worse.

Theoretically, man is inexhaustible. Psychology, anthropology, philosophy and other sciences do not tire of telling us about this great and banal truth, but from a practical point of view, an empirical person is a predictable and constant being. If a woman meets a man who is 30 or 40, then it is pointless to hope for his correction.

The main problem of people (both men and women equally) is that they are often not ready to perceive a living person. Partners look at each other through the prism of their own ideas about a "real man" or "real woman". When they have the right material, they try with maniacal persistence to squeeze the unfortunate person into the box. This cannot be done, because there are no real men and women, there are only people with advantages and disadvantages. And you need to try to accept the second and admire the first.

Therefore, a comparison with dad, a former boyfriend under a categorical ban, it offends, offends and leads to bad thoughts. Boys who love their mothers very much should not compare their wife with her, even if they really want to. Moreover, the advice is effective at any stage of the relationship.

Smooth transition from his interests to her desires and hobbies

What to talk about with a man? If a couple has been dating for a long time, for example, a month (don’t laugh, it’s a long time for a relationship, don’t wait a year, especially since the speed of life increases every day), you can already talk not only about him, but also about yourself:

• interests;
• hobbies;
• work;
• desires;
• plans for the future (personal, not joint).

By the way, this is also a good way to check the quality of a man. If he is interested in the inner world of a woman, then the relationship has a future and a worthy gentleman. When, during heartfelt, personal outpourings, Romeo yawns and tries to quickly change the subject to himself, his beloved, then it is better to quit such an egocentric after a month of acquaintance than to suffer all his life. As you can see, the question of what to talk about with a man is not particularly difficult.

Confessions of love. The main thing is to choose the moment

Sartre, in his wonderful but difficult book Being and Nothingness, wrote that the essence of the relationship between a man and a woman is struggle. The main goal is to subjugate the freedom of another person.

It is interesting that most people think the same way, which Sartre never discovered. A man is afraid to confess his love due to gender stereotypes, and a woman does not want to open her feelings until she is completely sure of the guy's trustworthiness. Needless to say, the unbearable lightness of the existence of modern civilization has played its role in human relations: frivolity is what each of us breathes now. Everything is temporary, ephemeral and unsteady. Therefore, the question is so acute about whether it is worth telling a man about his feelings and when is it better to do it?

If we develop the metaphor of relationships, like a chess game, then there is a one hundred percent option: the girl confesses when the guy confesses. Moreover, it is necessary to take into account the fact that such people live in the world, for whom, in principle, it is quite difficult to talk about their feelings and emotions. In this case, you can do without words if love is felt by the skin.

There is no magic stamp in the passport

If a woman is seriously determined to comprehend the psychology of communication with men, then she needs to understand that marriage in ideally built relationships should not change anything. When a mechanism is working properly, it needs no improvement. If people change 180 degrees after the registry office, then something was wrong. There are any number of such cases. For example, the husband begins to drink, the wife turns into a domestic tyrant. Scenarios are possible in which everything happens the other way around.

People overestimate the stamp in the passport, and then bitterly regret it. It is difficult to say what is the reason for such an illusion. In Russia, for example, it is quite easy to get a divorce compared to France.

We can only state the fact: some men and women perceive a visit to the registry office as a blood oath or a deal with the devil that cannot be canceled. This is their big mistake. The status of a wife or husband does not give any special privileges, they are provided only by love. A person also takes on responsibilities voluntarily, because he wants to make his loved one happy. This should always be remembered when thinking about the psychology of communication with men. The rule works both ways.

Claims must be substantiated

We are getting deeper and deeper into the essence of family life, and there is less and less room for romanticism. It gives way to the harsh everyday work. Scandals and contradictions are on the agenda. Love, unfortunately, does not imply automatic happiness and harmony between people. Love is the foundation, the foundation of a building, but not its rooms. The latter require separate efforts.

Therefore, when grievances and disappointments have accumulated, it is best to express them in a correct and specific form, that is, the phrase “you are a man, you must ...” is better to forget forever and never return to it. Only real problems should be discussed, and not those deceived expectations that have not been met. Phrases are also harmful:

1. "What's going on between us?"
2. "We need to have a serious talk."

True, the first is more typical for the middle of a relationship than for family life. But everything happens.

Boat of love in the ocean of life

The reader might think that maintaining good relations in such a situation is an almost impossible task. No, it's not that bad. Happy marriages do happen, but there aren't many. Most people lack the patience, understanding, and wisdom to keep relationships alive. The place of real feelings is occupied by ossified habit. Therefore, you do not need to ask yourself: should a man talk about love after so many years of marriage? This is an idle question. There is only one answer. Moreover, a woman also needs emotional support. People are afraid that sacred words will become on duty - these are empty fears. Cast aside doubts and forward to victory.

Only love has the power to keep a relationship from freezing. Of course, there is a certain percentage of men who marry for economic reasons: they are reluctant to cook their own food, ironing trousers is not a romantic approach. But the initial task of a person is to find a soul mate. Not bad if she also knows how to cook, but this is not the main thing. Only emotional closeness is important, everything else can be overcome.

Is there everlasting love?

The question that torments more than one generation of people: is it possible to love all your life? Yes, you can. If you approach the problem in the right way.

Psychologist Alesei Kapranov, in one of his lectures on the relationship between a man and a woman, said that boys never grow up and constantly need approval, first their mother praises them, then their wife. And only those girls who realize this will be able to build a strong family. The question of what words to say to a beloved man suggests a general answer: words of support and approval, if he does not receive them at home, then he will find them somewhere else, and then the marriage will end.

The recommendations are all simple, but few people use them. It is clear that the time requires quick and concrete decisions. But how can you give a single unified recipe for happiness for all couples? This is a utopia!

If, nevertheless, the general answer does not suit you and you want to know what phrases to say to a man, then if you please. They should start like this: "What are you ...":

• wise;
• Kind;
• Beautiful;
• generous;
• generous;
• penetrating.

If you really need to say something, then you should look for the positive qualities of your husband and sing about them. Otherwise, the recipe is simple: let's compliment each other. Praise each other, sparing no effort, and the more personal creativity in pleasant words, the better.

Each of you knows that the word is the strongest tool that can both inspire a man to take new heights, and forever push him away from himself, destroying love. Many women do not even think about the danger lurking in some phrases and words, but they can simply “blow up” even long-term relationships. So what is absolutely impossible to say to your chosen one?

1. “That’s forever with you everything through ..”

Such a phrase is simply humiliating for any man, and with it you will forever beat off his desire to do something for you. It doesn’t matter what caused your dissatisfaction: a house repair, an unsuccessful assembly of a new chest of drawers, or a replacement outlet. A man a priori should feel like a hero, performing feats for the sake of the chosen one.

2. "Size in bed doesn't really matter..."

Do not offer this dish to your loved one under any sauces, even if you say that it is better than the former at times - any comparison in the sexual field can cause discord. Tell about your ex-men only once and never return to this topic. And to his questions about how it was with this or that sexual partner, limit yourself to superficial answers and say that you are very good with him!

3. “I told you!!”

A truly wise woman will never reproach a man if he has suffered a failure or defeat - who can be insured against this? Do you think a man himself does not understand that he did not succeed, and does not blame himself for a mistake? And instead of an indefatigable saw, be a support during a difficult period.

4. “We urgently need to talk about something important. We're going to have a serious conversation..."

Such phrases cause nothing but nervousness and irritation, and the peak of its “perfection” comes when it is reported in the morning by SMS, and it will only be possible to talk in the evening. What do you think you will get after a day full of unpleasant puzzles, tension and excitement? Say important things right away so that the man can work out the options in his mind.

5. "You won't get sex until..."

There can be millions of variations, but such manipulations turn into one - a man finds himself a mistress who wants to have sex with him at any time without conditions. Ladies, do only men really need sex, and you don't give a damn about it?

6. “Your mother got me with moralizing and advice. Your uncle makes me sick."

Even if you hate his mother, brother or aunt with every fiber of your soul, never discuss them in a negative field. In no case should you get personal and speak negatively about his mother - this is a taboo. It’s better to say this: “I don’t feel very comfortable that my mother discusses our family. I feel embarrassed when your uncle looks at me in no uncertain terms.”

7. “I'm fed up with your stupid hobbies. How can you kill your time on this football? (fishing)."

Do not be offensive about your man's favorite hobbies, even if it seems to you that this is stupid and complete nonsense. And if you do not share his hobbies, show your loved one that you, at least, do not reject them. Your monotonous buzz about how tired you are when he watches the match will not change the situation - he will still love his football, but the relationship will always be tense at this point. You need it? And is your love series, Dom-2, or a vampire saga really more useful?

8. "But Petya ..."

And it started: Valka's husband earned money for a new fur coat, and Zinkin has already become deputy director and receives a lot of money. Colorful descriptions of an impeccable unknown hero will throw even the most seasoned man into the heat. Someday you will hear: “I am so happy for Petya and admire his talents and successes, so pack your bags and go to this hero - don’t waste your life on such a loser like me!”

9. "You are my plush cat, puzatik, masik, pusik, kukusik ..".

If you decide to lisp with your beloved in front of his friends, then there will be trouble - they will laugh at him, even in a friendly way. Replace such words with at least "dear, dear." Although all your tender words are best left until you are alone.

10. "Yes, it's just my ex ..".

You get a message on social media and you casually say, "Ah, it's just an ex-boyfriend." He will think that you are just a frivolous person for whom another relationship means nothing. Or, you communicate with an ex-boyfriend and try to hide it from your man.

11. "Act like a man"

And now, sorry, who is he? It turns out that now you do not consider him this very real man. Such a man’s motivation for heroic deeds for you has gone to zero.

12. "I can handle myself ..".

Your man considers himself a strong hero who will cope with any task, so he sincerely offers his help. He will enjoy it - he's a man! Let him open a can of food, move a heavy table, or screw in a light bulb, and while you can do it all yourself, let him get the morale out of it. And be sure to thank you for your help.

13. "It's time for you to go to the gym and go on a diet.."

Do you enjoy being poked in the nose with physical handicaps? You probably get goosebumps with indignation when employees at work throw: “Oh, how you got better! And the slimmer you were better!”. Your man may swallow resentment, although it will strike at his pride, but uncertainty and complexes will forever settle in his heart that he has "a big belly, like a pregnant woman." You run the risk that he will prove his attractiveness to himself by resorting to the help of other women, and will soon leave for someone who will love him for who he is.

14. “How do you like my new manicure, dress, shoes?”.

Never ask such questions to your man, as he absolutely does not care about such things. If the chosen one loves you, for him you will always be attractive and the most beautiful.

15. "But my mother says that it is necessary ...".

If your mother is a wise woman and gives advice for maintaining family happiness, let this remain your sweet secrets. Why talk about this to your man, because he will think that you do not have your own opinion.

16. "Don't you notice anything?"

Is he, an investigator or an experienced forensic specialist, to immediately determine that your hair has become shorter by 2 cm and has been lightened by one tone? When asking such questions, be prepared for the fact that his answer can deeply disappoint you!

17. "Do you remember what day it is today?"

A man nervously goes through all the dates known to him in the back of his memory: name day, the day you met, your mother’s birthday. Even if he forgot about some event, this is not the same as forgetting about you. Men are sick of any show, but in your own hands - after all, mutual pleasure is important to you, and not compliance with all transparent formalities?

18. "You are not able to understand me, my thin spiritual strings ..."

Maybe the problem is that you don’t know how to properly explain what is the reason for your worries and worries? He is not a psychic to catch a change of mood, and spend time searching for and analyzing the reasons why you have been depressed for three hours.

19. “Nothing happened. Everything is fine!".

You pouted, resentfully silent and stiffly answer any questions: “No. I'm fine, nothing happened." And an hour later you theatrically throw yourself on the sofa in painful sobs, accusing him of callousness and insensitivity. This is where jokes about female logic are made up. Immediately say what you are upset about and what worries you - the problem will be solved, and there will be peace and quiet.

20. "How many girls did you have before me?".

And what will happen if he keeps silent, goes to the kitchen (to count), and after half an hour proudly announces: “58!”. Do you need it with your five ex-men?

21. "I can't live a day without you.."

How these phrases frighten the male sex, who would know. In appearance, you do not look like a defenseless baby, requiring every second guardianship and care? Such phrases give power to a man, and you can become a weak-willed rag, on which they wipe their feet and use at any time.

22. "What are you thinking about now?".

Isn't it enough for you to be on friendly terms with the chef's wife and best friends with his sister and mother and discuss his cute flaws over a cup of tea? Or do you consider total control in the form of hourly SMS and endless calls acceptable? Let at least in your thoughts your man be free to ride a horse across the field of pleasures and forbidden entertainments. Everyone should have personal space.

23. "You act like a little kid."

And you begin to resemble a caring hen, taking care of every step. He got into tanks or wets zombies in a computer game? Do the same: don't cook dinner, put on a love movie and weep to your heart's content at sentimental moments. Soon the hungry urge in the husband's stomach will force him to help you in the kitchen in cooking.

24. "Now, if you really loved me, then you .."

Full explosion, after which your man will ask himself the question: “Damn, for sure, I don’t love her so much, since I don’t carry 101 roses and teddy bears.” Can you drop everything and find real feelings, so that there is heat in your heart, and recklessness in your head?

Verbal methods of arousal are underestimated by modern girls. There is a lot of information on the net about how a woman can beautifully turn her hips, how to erotically wink at a man in a cafe, what aphrodisiacs to use to prolong the night of love ...

We decided to consider the usual way of interaction for everyone - a conversation. How to excite a guy with words and is it possible at all? What exciting words will a guy definitely like, and what is better not to say?

“Darling, the borscht is ready,” is it suitable or not? And won't his ears droop from sweet flattery?.. Let's try to get to the bottom of the truth.

How to excite a man with words?

Speak his name

Any person is pleased to hear his own name. And for a man to hear it from the lips of his beloved after an orgasm is a special kind of pleasure.

But remember, no diminutives. He is not "Dimusik", not "Olezhka", not "Glebushka", not "Kid" and not "Bunny"! And you are not his mother or kindergarten teacher.

Such "uti-ways" only kill sexual desire, because a man feels like a little boy. Can babies passionately make love all night long? ..

Tell me about an erotic fantasy

How to excite a guy with just words? Here's another tip.

No man will remain indifferent to the sexual desires and dreams of his partner. Maybe you have been thinking about a sex toy, role playing or even a threesome for a long time?

It doesn't matter if you will implement these ideas or not, the fascinating detailed description of the "picture" will turn his imagination and not only ;)…

Reminisce about shared sexual moments

Your first dorm sex under the covers when there were three other roommates in the room? An intimate relationship in a restroom of a restaurant a few months ago? Mutual masturbation on the last row of the cinema?

Remind the man of some bright moment. Add how turned on you were then, and he was such a passionate sex monster that even your knees gave way.

The partner will feel desired, sexy and excited. And then - it's up to the small!

Give an intimate compliment

Hints about what a beautiful / long / skillful cock a man has will excite anyone. Compliment your partner's intimate dignity by saying, "You have the hardest penis I've ever seen" or "Your penis always gives me cosmic orgasms..."

You can hint at a blowjob: "I dream of licking it all over ...". Do it not at home, but somewhere in the store or in the car to stretch the anticipation of pleasure a little.

How to talk to turn a guy on with words?

Voice timbre

Not only words are very important, but also HOW you will pronounce them. Agree, a compliment about the shape of the penis from a shy thirteen-year-old girl does not turn on, but only touches.

Intonation

The main thing - without pathos and falsehood. If you know “effective” phrases, you don’t need to pronounce them like in a textbook or at the defense of a diploma. Add something of yourself, be sincere with your partner. Better a little, but good!

Volume

Screaming is probably not worth it - your partner is not deaf, and other people's ears should not hear it. A languid whisper is quite suitable for creating an intimate atmosphere.

Double meaning

Men are less likely to search for hidden meaning than women, but some phrases will be quite appropriate. For example, tell your loved one that their hands look like the hands of a musician. The result will not keep you waiting - at night he will arrange a grand concert, where your naked body will be the solo instrument!

“Without subtle hints, true eroticism is impossible,” said Milan Kundera. And we agree with him.

Intriguing phrases for men

What words to excite a guy so that he immediately throws you on the bed? We have prepared a list of favorites!

Of course, there are no statistical data on the reliability of the result. Someone will say: “Too frankly”, someone will get excited, someone will grimacing from vulgarity. Remember that everyone has their own preferences, look at the reaction of the man and adjust what you say.

We will present you some cool "blanks":

• "I want you". The leader phrase, after which sex happens very often. Men like proactive girls who are ready to take the first step!
• "Take me now." Too frank? For modest couples - perhaps. But if you really want passionate sex right now on this table - why not give it a try?
• "I dream to feel you inside..." Pictures of gentle penetration, your languid moans and half-closed eyes with pleasure are being drawn in my head. Well, who doesn't get excited?
• "To caress me" - words that not only excite, but also encourage action!
  

• “Beloved, do with me whatever you want ... I am yours.” It's time to try the most cherished poses and fantasies. A good night is guaranteed!
• “I’m without panties,” say this in a restaurant, and expect a lightning-fast effect. Favorite sexy woman who attracts in lingerie, but here - without it. Accessibility increases, and with it the desire!

What NOT to do if you want to turn a man on with words

• No jokes during sex. Humor excites only if it is BEFORE sex. Long before! When you are in bed together, naked and horny, and you say something from the series: "So small" with a mockery - you will only spoil the whole atmosphere.
  
• To be shy. With your head down and lightly twisting a lock of hair around your finger, you cannot make a truly sexy compliment ... You are an adult woman who has the right to express her desires even in a vulgar form. There's nothing to be embarrassed about herelike a schoolgirl. Times when there was no sex» long forgotten! Bolder!
• Demand. Sexual intercourse is a mutual pleasure. And if you are trying to excite your partner with the phrases: “Kiss my neck .. Get a massage ... And cunnilingus .. And this position ...» - he'll get tired. Take the initiative yourself!
• Empty chatter. Well, you forgot to close the refrigerator, or an ugly girlfriend marries an ex, or discounts in a store across the street ... A man does not care about these things when he makes you cunnilingus. If you ruin a romantic encounter with mundane topics, forget passion.
• Get distracted by the phone. You received another notification, and you, throwing the man’s hands off yourself, say: “Wait, please - an important message”? .. He will not appreciate it, the excitement will disappear, and you will fall asleep on opposite sides of the sofa.

No need to grab the phone while reading the notification and even more so to talk on the phone. Especially at peak times.

• Watch TV. Many couples start by "watching a movie" and end up having sex. And it's wonderful! Just stop trying to watch it all the same, and while he makes frictions, look at the screen with one eye.

The secret of successful sex

It's not just about erotic words, the "correct" excitement of a loved one and translucent lace underwear.

If you quarrel, are jealous, suspect each other or are secretly offended - no elegant wording of intimate compliments, blowjob techniques and poses from the last page of the Kama Sutra will save sexual intercourse.

Be frank with each other, realize piquant desires, talk about what pleases and worries you - and then the passion will last for years!

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He needs to know that he is strong, that he has influence, that he has the gift of persuasion, for example. Let him know what you see in himhis hero."

This article is valuable in that you will gain practical skills if you read it to the end. In addition, I will sharesecret information, which I give only in training.

Thanks Evgenia! Mutual understanding reigns in their family relations with their beloved. I'm happy for them.

Do you want to get the husband of your dreams? Then let's get started.

The purpose of complimenting a man is to keep the emotional connection in the relationship.

First, let's remember what it is - an emotional connection? In the modern world, there is an opinion that successful and functional relationships in a married couple are built on mutual respect and unconditional trust. And love, passion and other romance"is not a matter of first importance,"possible without it" .

If in your relationship with a man there is a place for that very “ romance", then strengthens them" emotional connection". This is important for your communication. And I'll tell you why.

Emotional connection, in a married couple, is the foundation on which your House is built. A home where you want to return as soon as possible. You know the feeling when you really want to get home after " have a bad day”, where all the negativity of the day will not weigh on you. This is the place where troubles lose their weight, become insignificant.

Rest assured, if you, as a married couple, do not create such an atmosphere for each other, then no one will do this for you. Such an environment is necessary. After all, it can come to , rupture of relations.

Ask yourself: do I want communication with my man to create conditions "security inside my house "? If "Yes”, then a very effective method is to compliment your man. And do it right.

In the training, we teach women the art of making the right compliments. This skill is devoted to a whole lesson number 18 called “Compliments”.

The effect on a man that compliments can have

And this is a particularly important point. How do you like this thought: you can " program» actions of a man with the help of « proper compliments".

It is noteworthy that with their simple help you can get from a man .... yes anything! If you know how to compliment a man in bed, in correspondence, at work, anywhere and at any time, about his style, about his appearance - thereby instill in him a desire to do something. Also you can while complimenting him.

I want you to understand correctly. For this, I will give one statement of the muse V.V. Mayakovsky - Lily Brik. This idea conveys the essence very accurately. She said:“... It is necessary to inspire a man that he is wonderful and even brilliant, it’s just that others don’t understand this. And allow what is forbidden to him at home, and then you will create your ideal man ... " .

But you could do " correct"compliment to a man. Say that none of the men you know has such extraordinary mental abilities. Believe me, it motivates you to achieve. The mechanism works - and the man, confident in his abilities, begins to act.

How to compliment a man?

So, the desire to restore a smile on the face of your loved one, the desire to cheer him up is commendable and absolutely true. But in most cases, women use “supposedly tried and proven” methods that bring the opposite result.

For example: try to bring it to " intimate talk". The catch here is that men mostly endure hardships. inside yourself". And so for him talking about your problems' is by no means an encouragement. On the contrary, he moves even further away.

Remember, have you ever had this: did he react to a sincere attempt to help his lover in such a way that he closed himself even more inside himself?

I want to convey that the best compliment for a man is a phrase that characterizes your condition next to him, makes it clear that you are happy and grateful to him for being with you. A man wants to understand that you are satisfied with the way he cares for you. He wants to know that you feel happy next to him, appreciate what he does for you. Therefore, I want to present you a very easy, but effective method.
Pay attention to these 16 phrases, " denounced» in compliments to the man. You can successfully use them in order to develop, improve those qualities for which you value him - courage, strength, and similar character traits.

16 phrases denounced as compliments to a man ...

1. Your smile turns me on / You make me lose my mind
2. I lose track of time when I'm around you
3. I think about you all the time when you are around
4. I adore your smile. In the morning when I see her, she motivates me to be even better for you.
5. Take my hand, let's go for a walk. I want everyone to see what a wonderful man I have
6. Looking into your eyes, I want to dissolve in them. I want you. You feed my life force more than the air I breathe
7. I want you to hug me" whole body". Let even the wind not slip between us
8. I can't think of anything else when you're next to me
9. If you were a drink, I would drink you in one gulp / or vice versa - savored, with a blissful smile on my face
10. Having touched your world once, I burned with a desire to be a part of it always.
11. I love it when you look at me like that. I feel loved
12. When you speak, I can even hear your warm breath
13. There is no such person in the whole world. Which would be of such value to me
14. It was next to you that I understood the essence of the statement " women love with their ears". When you speak, my attention is drawn to every word you say. Your voice is a real magnet
15. I admire your ability to make……/your ability
16. The best place on earth where I can be is your strong embrace. I feel protected next to you

Compliments to a man are a weapon.

So, in your fragile hands is the tool with which you can create the man of your dreams.

You will be surprised how easy it is to have such a man nearby who meets all your needs. The main thing is that you do not deprive him of his freedom, because he wants this himself - to BE THE BEST FOR YOU. Remind him that you feel protected next to him, and you will feel it more and more.

Impress him that with such a level of intellectual development can not be compared « not a single head» at his job that he has no competitors there. With each passing day, this confidence will grow stronger. Fill the mind of your chosen one with this confidence.

And again about harmony. Not always your words can achieve the ultimate goal and cheer up a man. These words may seem feigned, and he will perceive them as flattery. Believe what you say when complimenting a man.

In addition, men cannot be overpraised. It is arrogant 🙂 This has been tested by more than one woman and not one man.

Marilyn Monroe said: I agree to live in a world ruled by men as long as I can be a woman in this world". You have the power, use it. This is how this world works.

But I want to remind you: I want happy families to be built. And it is for women pursuing a noble goal - to create a family, healthy relationships, that I give away the accumulated experience. And this experience is not designed to seduce a man and rejoice "purchasing a toy.

Lesson number 5 called "Secrets of building relationships" (as part of the training) gives a woman practical skills and techniques for taking relationships with a man to a new level. Including compliments.

Thank you for reading this article. It is very important for me to know that my words have value for you! Save these phrases on your page on the social network. Remember, by giving the right compliments to a man, you are making the right choice!

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